If your home is where the pleasures of the erotic massage will be enjoyed then the person giving you the massage should make the decision where they can insure you are totally relaxed and also choose a place where no one can interrupt either one of you during the erotic massage. It should be a place where you can rest on the massage table or firm bed. The masseuse should be able to move freely and uninhibited around your body as they massage you. The important thing about this massage is that you should be very comfortable so you can relax utterly. This should be a mutual act with both parties consenting to the performance which in fact it will be.

After you are comfortable have the masseuse use pillows to rise up your neck or other parts of the body as they are touched and massaged. Several towels should be handy if you or the masseuse chooses to wipe off the sweat as it rolls off your body parts and in the crevices of the skin areas. It would be lovely if your partner performing the massage gives you a choice of oils when they massage the body. The oils are used so you did not experience any sore spots from too much rubbing on raw and tender skin. An especially erotic feeling is when that scented oil is warm. If the masseuse knows you well they may also know your favorite scents so they will choose your favorite oils instead of giving you that choice. The more erotic the scent is the more powerful the effect will be on your sense of smell and perhaps the better your response to the massage.

In order to create a mood the background music which could be your choice or if you both share the same taste something that you both enjoy will set the tone of the erotic massage. Some hard core rock might not be as soothing as soft flutes or erotic jazz notes floating around the room.

If the masseuse is using warm oil you should feel wonderful strong yet soothing moving motions as their hands keep continued contact with your body. This should feel like you both have a rhythm going so the partner getting the massage begins to respond to the rhythm of their hands. The masseuse will look directly into your eyes so they see if they are causing any pain. Pain is not a part of this massage as the result should be one of ultimate pleasure. This is meant to be an erotic experience so the masseuse needs to spend all of the time you both require to get to the ultimate pleasure point.

Whatever the purpose of this erotic massage you want to be as relaxed and comfortable when receiving the massage. This may be a preface to sexual intercourse or simply a way to get relaxed after a hard week at work. Whatever the ultimate purpose remember the roles certainly can be reversed.