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How To Develop Trust In A Relationship
By Brenda Shoshanna · 16 years ago
When distrust, arises in a relationship there are many factors which can be causing it. Unless we understand where these feelings are coming from, it becomes easy to act out, blame the partner and put ...
Why Men Need Adventure In Relationships And How To Handle It
By Brenda Shoshanna · 16 years ago
There are certain men who crave adventure in their relationships and also in their lives. This is the craving to be challenged, grow and become all they are capable of. For some the call comes ...
Surprising Reasons Why Men Leave Relationships (And How To Handle It)
By Brenda Shoshanna · 16 years ago
After a relationship ends, whether it's a 20 year marriage or a promising romance, women ask themselves over and over, what went wrong? They ask themselves, their girlfriends and their therapists. Sometimes they even spend ...
How To Stop Waiting For The Perfect Partner and Find Love Now
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
All have a dream of perfection, of the perfect mate who will understand their every need before they say it and match their inner image of woman/man at their best. This person is the perfect ...
5 Ways To Increase The Joy In Your Relationships
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
Usually we enter relationships hoping they will make us happy. We hope that this one is the right one, that we are not repeating mistakes of the past, and that finally we will receive the ...
How To Know If It's Time To Stay or Go In Your Relationship?
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
Many individuals spend a great deal of time in relationships wondering if the person is right for them, whether they should stay or go. This question can become so persistent that it interferes with being ...
How To Know If it's Really Love? (Finding the Real Thing)
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
"Something is always missing," Karla said. "In the beginning of the relationship, he always seems like the perfect one, finally. We're happy, excited, deeply in love, and then - reality sets in. I start wondering ...
Why Men Are Afraid of Commitment (And How To Help)
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
Freedom means different things for different men. For some, the main joy of relationships is challenge. They happily pursue a woman as long as they don't have her, but once they do, they start feeling ...
How Love Grows (Practical Steps To Keeping Love Alive)
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
We are meant to live a life of love. However, no matter how successful some are in other aspects of their lives, they don't feel it's possible to have the same success in love. They ...
Learn How It's Impossible To Fail At Love
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
Usually relationships start out wonderfully. Everyone feels that finally they've found the "one". Then as time passes, as problems come up and old patterns start re-appearing, they begin wondering where has the love gone. Even ...
Renewing Your Love For Each Other
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
It is easy to become stuck in our routines and automatic behaviors. While this is necessary is some ways, when it happens it has the effect numbing us and putting us out of touch with ...
From Anger To Peace of Mind
By Brenda Shoshanna · 17 years ago
Anger is a serious problem for one in every five Americans. Road rage, workplace violence, domestic abuse and even addiction are just a few of its many expressions. The reason such a large umber of ...
Why Men Leave (The Fantasy Relationship)
By Brenda Shoshanna · 18 years ago
"What's life without a girl friend?" asks Jimmy, a tall, forty-five year old Sicilian man, an irresistible charmer. "I never say good-bye to one without a few more waiting in the wings," he says. "It ...
Simple Steps To Having Healthy Relationships
By Brenda Shoshanna · 18 years ago
All people want love, then when they get it they become afraid and start running in the opposite direction. On the one hand, they want love and to be in a relationship; on the other ...