Email Etiquette – More Than Just Manners
Computers & Technology → Email
- Author Angela Nielsen
- Published October 31, 2005
- Word count 1,986
We all understand the importance of good “people skills” when
it comes to our interpersonal communication – it helps us get
the results we need. Our communication determines the opinion
others have of us – knowledgeable or ignorant, pleasant or
rude, professional or immature. Most of the time this is in
face-to-face or telephone conversations where we have some
control over the impression we make on others.
When it comes to netiquette (Network Etiquette), it’s not as
easy to control how others perceive us, and yet it’s even more
important. Why? Because what you write and how you use email
can affect whether your email gets delivered, read, or
responded to – and what that response is! In addition, there
are numerous “technology traps” that are easy to fall into.
Have you ever seen someone accidentally send an angry or
sensitive response to a huge group of people by using the
”Reply All” key?
And before you say to yourself "I already know" and stop
reading this article, realize that every single one of us could
benefit from a few simple reminders on the proper use of email,
not just from a personal view but also from a business
standpoint. If you're doing business on the internet – and
using email to communicate with your customers – then this
article is a must read for you! You may already know many of
these tips, but even the most experienced user will find a few
rules you were not aware of or have fallen into the habit of
breaking.
Think, write, and think again.
Email is a static, one-way channel – unlike live communication,
there’s no way to get immediate feedback (from facial
expressions or voice responses) to know if we are being
effective or even understood. So think twice before hitting the
send key. Is there ANY chance that the recipient might
misinterpret what you want them to understand? Do your thoughts
come across as abrupt or angry? Could this email accidentally
affect your reputation? The hastily written word may lack
feelings and the true emotion you intended. You might be
smiling as you type, but your note could come across as
sarcastic or mean-spirited. Remember – there’s a person on the
other end, not just a computer.
Use a meaningful subject line.
This is the first thing your reader will see, so use the space
to help them understand the contents of the email even before
they open it. Using the same rule from above, type in a subject
that relates to the message you're sending, rather than leaving
the subject blank. Without a subject line your note will
probably be seen as another piece of junk mail – not everyone
will recognize who you are just from your email address. Many
internet service providers (ISP’s) filter out suspicious
looking email, and a blank subject is a big red flag. Also, try
to avoid generic words like "Hi" or "Check This Out" to avoid
having the recipients spam or virus software delete your
message!
The beginning, and the end.
Always use a salutation, even if it’s short. Start your message
with "Hi", or "Hello", or "Dear", whatever works best for the
intended recipient, and whatever reflects your personality.
Think about this: when you call someone on the telephone, don't
you say "Hello" before telling them what you want? Email
messages should be no different. At a minimum, address the
email to the person.
Don't forget the end of your message too! Always sign your
messages with your name, and say "Thank You", or "Sincerely",
or something else appropriate. You can even setup a signature
in your email program that will automatically display your
information at the bottom of every email message you send. For
directions, use your email programs help file and do a search
for signature.
Protect your recipient’s identity – use “To:”, “CC:” and “BC:”
properly.
There are a few simple netiquette rules for using the address
fields in email.
If your email is being sent to just one person or email
address, place it in the "To:" field. This should be the person
who is responsible for sending you a reply.
When your email is being sent to more than one person and all
the recipients truly need to know who else is receiving it, put
all the addresses in the “CC:” field.
For email sent to multiple recipients who have no real reason
to know the names and email addresses of everyone else to whom
it is being sent, put all the addresses in the “BCC:” field.
(Some email software requires at least one address to be placed
in the “To:” field. Put your own email address in the “To:”
section if this is required.)
By default, not every email program has the BCC field available
for viewing. If you cannot see the Bcc field in your program,
check your programs help file for directions.
Give memory a helping hand.
When replying to emails, include a copy of the prior notes
you’ve traded with the person on the topic, don't just send a
new one. I may receive 50 emails a day that need a reply and
it’s not always possible to remember every single
'conversation' with every single person. Please don’t make your
reader go looking through their ‘sent items’ folder or email
‘recycle bin’ to refresh their memory!
Use the ‘Read Receipt’ sparingly.
In some cases, it's crucial for both parties to know that a
message was received. However, in normal day-to-day activities
you should not request a read receipt for every single message
you send. It's annoying to the recipient to have to click that
pop up box every time they get your email. And it is an
invasion of privacy. Don't forget – just because they have
received it doesn't mean they have necessarily read it, so
receiving a read receipt doesn't actually prove anything other
than that the message was received. And for day to day
communications, is that really necessary?
URGENT!
The boy who cried wolf. Do not send all your messages as
URGENT, or HIGH PRIORITY. If your recipients keep receiving
messages marked that way, then eventually the red exclamation
point loses it's effectiveness – except to reinforce how
important YOU think you are. Reserve these messages for those
that are of utmost importance!
Avoid special formatting.
For your day-to-day messages, don't use colored email
backgrounds, colored fonts, special fonts, images or other
"pretty" type of formatting to your messages. Keep them clean –
this makes it easier for the intended recipient to read them and
reply. It's best to send messages in plain text to ensure
everyone will be able to read them, since not everyone has
their email set to receive html emails. You would be amazed at
how bad your note may look to someone viewing their email on a
handheld device or an older computer. By keeping your emails
clean, they will also load much faster for the recipient!
Don’t SHOUT!
If you type in all capital letters, your reader will see this
as yelling, or they will think that you were just too lazy to
use proper text formatting. It’s also hard on the eyes – did
you know that it takes longer to read something written in all
caps than it does to read something that is properly formatted?
Proof, spell-check, and use proper formatting.
Poor writing skills are a direct reflection on you! And the
reader never forgets the person who writes an undecipherable
message. Spell checking will prevent most misspelled words, but
you should always proof your email in case you've written the
incorrect word (that was spelled correctly). For example, month
and moth, where and were, all look correct to a spell-check
program. Use proper capitalization, punctuation and formatting.
Break your paragraphs when the subject changes, or if they
become too long. Don't use excessive formatting (too much bold,
too many exclamation points and question marks, etc.) Too much
of anything will make your message harder to read. You want to
make your message easily readable, as well as understandable.
Proofread it to ensure it make sense, and never assume the
reader knows what you mean, always spell it out for them. The
time it takes to proof and spell check is minimal compared to
the lasting impression you will make if you don't take the
time.
Take the time to send a reply.
Even when someone emails you something that doesn't need a
direct response, follow up with them in a timely manner just to
let them know you received their message. It’s amazing how often
people will ask for advice, and not even reply with a short
“Thank you” when they receive their answer. A simple message
telling the sender is sufficient. And this lets them know you
did receive it, that it didn't just get stuck in cyberspace
somewhere.
If they didn't request it, don't send it!
No matter what you think may be acceptable, you cannot email
someone about your product/service without their permission.
Unless they request that you send them an email, or you have
previously done business with them, then it is illegal to send
them an email, period. Any recipient can easily forward your
email to their ISP and report you for sending unsolicited email
messages (SPAM).
This report would result in the immediate removal of all your
websites/email address from most servers. You would then join a
list of “prohibited senders” meaning that servers would not
allow any messages attached to your domain name to be received
by their customers - the people you are sending your messages
to.
You might be thinking, “but I get emails every day about
products/services that I didn't request information about.”
Sending unsolicited email messages (SPAM), is kind of like
speeding. Lot's of people do it, but it is against the law, and
no matter how long you may get away with it, you are bound to
get caught!
Compress, Compress, Compress!
If you are sending an email with several large attachments, it
is often better to send them in a few separate emails, so that
you don’t send a document that is too large to even open. Or,
you can try compressing your messages into a zipped file. It
doesn’t reduce the size of images or pictures very much, but it
works great for text, spreadsheet and program files. This is
very easy to do, and will make your file size much smaller, and
make the recipient much happier. Check out www.winzip.com (for
those on pc).
Hoaxes as helpful hints.
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Do not
forward everything that gets sent to you. We've all seen them –
the chain-letter emails that promise if you forward to x number
of people you'll get paid, or you'll win something, or you will
be lucky forever. It's all a hoax, a scam, and the only result
is huge numbers of email transmissions that slow down servers
all across the country. If you receive one of these emails from
a friend, reply to them (in a very nice way) and explain to them
why this isn't true, or ask them to stop forwarding them to you.
Virus, or virus advice?
Many viruses are spread by email masquerading as warnings about
– a virus! If someone forwards you a virus warning, which
usually contains instructions for removing a virus from your
computer... check google.com for that virus BEFORE doing
anything. Chances are, it's also a hoax, and if you do remove
that "bad file" from your computer, you're actually removing a
necessary component crucial to your system!
Wow, that was a lot of information to take in at one time, but
I congratulate you for sticking it out and reading the entire
article. Please share it with your family, friends and
colleagues.
Angela Nielsen is President of NIC Media
Group, an award-winning web development company located in San
Diego, California. To find out more about Angela Nielsen, and
NIC Media, visit http://www.nicmedia.com or call them direct at
888 NIC Media. Copyright 2005 by Angela Nielsen and NIC Media
Group
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