How to Sky Rocket Your Success and Living Your Dreams

Self-ImprovementSuccess

  • Author Hoong Ling Chew
  • Published June 26, 2010
  • Word count 853

I have dreams - big and small. And I have one thing worth sharing - I am living my dreams. I have wanted to be recognised due to desire for self-expression and I have achieved what I wanted and more.

Desiring for recognition? I have got the state Youth Award at a tender age of 26 by the government, Great Woman of Our Time Award at 28 by the prestigious Women Weekly magazine (youngest recipient so far), Lions Club District 308-B1 Distinguished Service Award and due recognition for the good deeds I have done. And I was doing all these for ONE main objective at that time - to proof to my aunt that our family can also be successful.

I have done my works, reached my objective after 15 long years. That made me suddenly thought "So, what's next?" My journey of self-discovery revolved around understanding myself better and eventually I have wanted to become a successful inspirer. I wrote about my dreams and now I am achieving it. No - not those of having big houses or super cars. Just a dream to live freely.

I have quit my job beginning of the year and currently doing really good and loving my daily life because of my desire for freedom and to do what I want. I am for my own now and fully satisfied with the results!

I list down just a few points to share on HOW to live your dreams.

Do Good

The FIRST thing you can do to yourself and others. Doing good, keeping no regrets and living every moment at least it will be the last. Of course, I have regrets here and there but in the last few years I have lived my life without too much regrets so I could sleep very well at night. It is interesting to note that this phrase 'DO GOOD" itself is easier said than done however we can start small by saying thank you when someone hold the lifts' door for us, smile at a stranger or just help a person who has dropped something.

Financial

Keep expenses to the lowest, commitment lowest, have substantial savings, and if you decide to be in debt - make sure can cover it in short term, a maximum of 5 years. Bad debts, to be exact!

Having my financial controlled meaning I can quit my job anytime. I work in a company knowing I am not doing it solely for money but for passion, commitment, learning and having that strong sense of responsibility. I treat the company as mine and I work as if I am the boss so that whenever I make a decision, I will always put the company as top priority - never for self-interest. So when there are people asking me why things get done - this is the main reason! If you work for money, chances are your daily work will be moaning around not enough money, no pay raise, no bonus and therefore work efficiency reduces which in turn - no raise no bonus!

This does not mean I am conservative in spending, in fact I am in the "spender" group, I would say I am not the frugal type. I enjoy "luxury" enjoyments like savouring good old Chinese tea, good liquor and even cigar at times! I love my gold coins collection and of course now building my property collection.

I was introduced to finance only when first reading Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. I would say it took me more than 2 years to change my mindset about money - something set in the mind by parents and guardians since young - you just gotta change it and do it! Many people do not have that guts to even start, therefore I recommend starting somewhere and now is the best time! Go attend a course or two - if it is free course, attend as many as possible! Even if it says "free previews", go attend because you will learn something.

Be True to Self

I grew up as a popular person everywhere I went. In primary school - the naughtiest! In secondary school - the loudest! I was commander for foot drill, school is so small so it will be difficult to contain your voice in that small environment. With that popularity, it was difficult to be myself. I was wearing a "mask" out everyday trying to be someone. It all stopped when I finally suffocated myself and then I said, "Let me be myself". From the day I removed that "mask" I felt great, the whole burden was lifted from me and I just be myself. There is nothing more you can give to yourself when you are yourself.

I speak directly, very straightforward, no nonsense but I appreciate sense of humor, laugh loudly and heartily! I am the most direct and straightforward person, some may be offended but I care less to think about offending who because in the end, I am responsible for myself and my mouth.

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An emcee, a speaker, a trainer - she speaks! A Malaysian who finds peace and interest in all different ethnics and cultures. Former TV Presenter on Good Morning Malaysia. Organ donation activist who walk the talk by giving part of her liver to save a life. Living her dream now, she has a Beagle and a hamster as pets, love spending time to read and learn about properties as well as investing in rental properties from auctions. For more information, please browse to www.hoongling.com

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