Advice On Dating

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  • Author Shekhar Va
  • Published July 5, 2010
  • Word count 564

Whoever said that ‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’ must have attempted to date and failed miserably…like few (most?) of us, or else why would he place these two species so away from each other… on two different planets? Apparently, he must have had no access to proper advice on dating. But have you noticed there is Earth in between Venus and Mars, and if Earth stands for ‘Reality’, so does stand some advice on dating between you and your perfect date.

Advice On Dating is not some kind of ‘key to the treasure box’ that you use it and hey… you hit the jackpot! Advice on dating is just a broad set of instructions that gives you the black-and-white picture (dos and don’ts sort), which YOU got to fill with YOUR own colors. Alright?… Let’s get the picture.

Let this ‘Love-Guru’ start his Advice On Dating by exorcising the notorious ghost of ‘sweet misconceptions’ that our ‘mistakes-prone’ Romeos are possessed with.

My first Advice On Dating would be to stop (and if you haven’t started, then don’t ever start) being ‘such a sweet guy’, because all that you get by doing this is "Ohhh dear, you are such a sweetie… Know what, you are my best friend." Haven’t you noticed all ‘babes’ always seem to date the ‘jerks’. Be a jerk, and satisfy her ‘guts attraction’. If you believe, treating woman well means seeking her approval in everything, then you better do something else. Mind it, this piece of advice on dating doesn’t suggest to be bad or ruthless or rude, but it just suggests to be ‘a man’. Take control.

If I ask you to persistently ‘never give up’ proving her that ‘she likes you’, then that would be bad Advice On Dating. Trust me, you can not change the way she feels about you, unless your world is administered by a romantic-comedy movie maker. You can not buy her affection, love, or even lust by giving her expensive food and gifts. At the most, (if your luck is really bad and she is a real bitch) she will ‘pretend’ to have fallen for you and ‘loot’ you for as long as she can. Women (pretty or plain) are swept away with the way their man makes them feel. Looks don’t matter as much as the ‘treatment’ does. So, the next bit of advice on dating is to decide how you wanna sweep your woman off… on her feet or on her nerves?

Whatever you feel for her (or towards your relationship), keep it to yourself. ‘Pretty Woman’ can be approached (by ‘really’ eligible hunks) despite their screwed up social statuses… keep this in mind. They have lot of options… so don’t petrify them or take away their excitement. This is the most important Advice On Dating.

The other points of Advice On Dating include not relying much on money and looks (if you don’t want her to fall for you for wrong reasons), maintaining your space (i.e. letting her know that she is extremely important, but your world has some space for other things as well), being ‘smart with the moment’ (i.e. knowing how to tackle each situation in the best way), and never feel offended if you have to take her help in some situation.

I guess, this Advice On Dating gives you the B&W picture of ‘ideal dating’… If yes, then best of luck…go ahead… play with ‘your’ colors. Happy Dating…!!!

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