5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

By Michael Webb

Here are five really simple ways to make your

lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate... (Even

starting tonight)

1. Find your partner's "hidden" zones

I call these "hidden" zones because many people

don't realize, or forget, that these areas of the

body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the

lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are

also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed,

can drive your partner wild and even intensify

their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair

are all really sensitive areas that love to be

stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay

caressing and touching these areas, and watch how

it pleases your partner.

2. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music,

incense and even rose petals to set the mood of

your lovemaking is too "cliché." Are they kidding!

Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone

went to all the trouble to create a special

lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years

to come. Could this be so "cliché" because people

enjoy it so much? Point made.

3. Give them a sensual massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further

and give your partner a sensual massage that makes

them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make

it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by

having them slowly undress during the massage. Then

kiss, caress and slowly transition "under the

sheets" where a massage of another kind can take

place.

And no, you don't need years of study to give a

great massage. Just grab some candles and music,

and bless your partner with an experience they'll

never forget.

4. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to

strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It

takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody

have their mouth down there. Not to mention it's

great for men who want to relax without pressure to

perform, and for women who can't reach orgasm from

only intercourse. In short, it's an important part

of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and

women.

LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on

the penis straight away when, actually, they should

start with some playful teasing and soft touches.

This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it

heightens his anticipation.

GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their

tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the

vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should

lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip

to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet

around the clitoris with your tongue.

5. Constantly explore and try new things

If I could only give you one piece of advice for

better lovemaking, it would be this: become

adventurous and creative.

Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except

your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it

somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a

game.

Let's face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no

matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,

but it's HOW you do it and the way you make your

partner feel that really counts.

By dedicating time to finding new things, you can

turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary

lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure

your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and

intimate for years to come.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500

Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up

your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and

intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:

http://www.hydroponicsandbrew.com