Rose pedals cover the bed and bottles of massage oils glisten, as candles flicker, a sensual mood fills the room. Covered in oil, naked on the bed as you massage each other, from head to toe, a shear teddy, and a pair of silk stockings, lay in the floor, only minutes ago worn by your now naked lover. Candles dimly light the room while soft music playing love songs from your early days together, softly serenade her as you massage her to ecstasy. As your naked oiled bodies touch, the sounds of soft moans begin to fill the room. Soon the music has all but been forgotten and the sounds of passionate love making fill the air.

Does this sound like your normal Friday night after a long week at work? Does this sound like any night? Probably not for most married couples. Most married couples lose the romance shortly after the wedding night. It’s a sad fact that we all tend to get so caught up in the every day rat race that we forget what love is all about. After working all week, the last thing most of us think about when we get home is romance. Its time to relax and enjoy our time off from work, maybe turn on the TV and try to stay awake to see the end of what ever it was we were watching.

Guys often wonder why women like those romantic movies so much. It could be a somewhat fantasy of what they wish their lives could be like. Don’t take that wrong guys, just because she likes romantic movies doesn’t mean she isn’t happy, or that she loves you less. It’s a depiction of what love is thought to be like, and has been shown to us since childhood. Ideally we would all love to get back the kind of relationship we had when we first got together. Do the words I love you at the end of a phone call or a peck of a kiss as we are out the door to work show how we really care about our spouse?

Can the days when you knew you were in love be brought back? That has been a debate in articles by the thousands. With all the secrets to spice up your love life, and tips on how to liven up the bedroom activities that are endless on the internet, most without ever addressing the real issue at hand. Love is where a good sexual relationship starts. If its good kinky sex you are looking for, all those tips and sex toys are just what you might need. If it’s a good sexual relationship with your spouse, then loving your spouse and making sure they know it, is where you need to start.

Just imagine for a second (god forbid this should ever happen) how you would feel if the phone rang and you were told your spouse was killed today. How would that make you feel right then? Would you feel the love you had for them at that very moment? Would you mourn for what you had lost? Would you wish you could have shown them how you felt more? Of coarse you would. Why wait to say how you feel, tell them every chance you get how much you love them. Make sure they know how important they are to you everyday. Smile when you see them, listen when they talk. Touch them like you would a new born baby and hold them when they hurt. Care about their feelings and show them you need them in your life.

Is being in love something you have to work at? Many say it is, and that the longer you are together, the harder you have to work at it. Love requires no hard work, other than to remember you have it. Open yourself and let it out every second of every day. If you live by these rules, every day together will be just like the day you fell in love. Every time you see them you will fall in love all over again. Don’t wait, show them, tell them, and make them believe, you love them everyday. Be sincere and don’t be afraid to shed a tear, say I love you as often as you can, and love will very quickly find its way back to you.

Your rewards will be plentiful and your life will be just like in the movies, you will be making love like newlyweds again in no time. I love my wife Anna Roberts more than life it’s self, and hope to take my own advice and tell her everyday as we continue our hard work on our website together.