Your Past - Must You Resolve Its Issues Before Connecting With Your Soulmate?

Welcome to article three in my series in which I respond to the most commonly asked questions about finding a loving committed relationship. Finding love is meant to be simple and easy but somehow for many of us it can become a complicated, even heartbreaking process.

My intention in answering these commonly asked questions is to clear up some misconceptions and in doing so save some of you months or even years of frustration and loneliness. Hopefully within this series you will find the answer that can help you connect with your soulmate and begin living the life of your dreams now.

So let's look at question three which is: I have heard that there can be things that have happened in my past that I can't even remember that can prevent me from being in a loving relationship. Should I get counseling to see if there is something wrong with me that is keeping me from finding my soulmate?

It is my personal belief that it is not necessary or even valuable to spend your time looking for what is wrong with you. Unless you have a very severe issue that you are aware of and that you feel you need professional help with, the problem, from my experience, is that you can remain bogged down in looking for reasons and excuses why your life isn't working the way you want it to and waste months of your life when you could otherwise be happy and fulfilled.

It is much better to live in the present and begin today focusing on things that make you happy. Whatever you are putting your attention on is what you are attracting more of into your life.

So spend your time learning to love yourself more and more, appreciating all the wonderful things and people that are now in your life and generally becoming more of what you want to attract to you. What you think about, your bring about. What you put out into the world is what comes back to you.

If you want to attract a loving, generous, happy, fun, exciting person to spend your life with, focus on becoming that kind of person yourself. That is the best use of your time and energy and the best way to attract the man of your dreams.

If you'd like to learn more, you can go to my website and download the videos in this series. Also you will find another ten videos that you can download, also free of charge, in which I reveal the reasons that many people have difficulty attracting their soulmate.