Are you wondering how to attract men? How to turn on a man naturally? Women often ask me what causes a man to enjoy being with a woman who seems to be a "plain Jane" (even unattractive) and reject a woman with supermodel looks? It's not what you think. While a pretty face, long legs and a tight butt do turn a man on physically, they don't actually keep his attention long-term.

WHY YOU DON'T NEED TO LEARN TO FLIRT

There are hundreds of programs, books and people who teach women how to flirt. Some actually work, but why try so hard? You don't need to. The good news is Mother Nature already gave you everything you need to flirt naturally. You don't even have to say anything; you don't have to try or be fake. So if you're overcoming shyness, this is great news! I had a conversation with a super-successful friend of mine who happens to be an entrepreneur. His name is Eric Farewell; he's handsome, tall, smart and fun, the type of guy any upscale single would desire. We had a candid chat about what REALLY turns men on.

Here's what I discovered...

NATURAL FLIRTING TIP #1 The first big turn-on is a woman who laughs. A woman who finds joy just being around him is irresistible. Men love to entertain and make women laugh. It's a huge ego boost when you're having a great time with him. Do this and his attraction to you will skyrocket.

NATURAL FLIRTING TIP #2 The second thing you can do to create intense attraction with a man is to make eye contact. It's one of the rules of attraction (I hate rules as they kill your natural attraction). Looking at him directly in the eyes tells him three things:

1. You are interested in what he has to say. Everyone knows men crave attention and validation. Not in a needy way, but in a way that boosts their egos. Why do you think they're always competing at something? Showing your interest makes him feel good, and in turn he feels good about you. It's the law of reciprocity.

2. You like him. Don't worry about seeming like you're coming on to him. You won't. Most men want to avoid rejection. When he feels at ease with you, he'll be much more likely to ask you out if you do this.

3. You're sexy. Yes! I mean that. When you look into a man's eyes, it shows you are confident and in touch with your feminine side. It's a secret weapon few women use to their advantage. Men literally melt at the gaze of a woman. You'll be so irresistible, don't be surprised if he starts stuttering as his thermostat is rising!

Think you're too shy to do it? No worries. Just look at him and then look down. Make sure you don't look away or at people in the room. That's a sign that you're bored and don't want to be bothered. So be aware of this.

NATURAL FLIRTING TIP #3

The third thing Eric revealed is actually linked to the first. It's a turn-on when a woman laughs at a man when he's said something silly or stupid. If you can't do that, he's going to feel you're some sort of "uptight princess" without a sense of humor. Don't think it's rude, your laughter will actually show your playful side and put him at ease. I have had men actually tell me that I "had them" the first time I laughed. So instead of "you had me at hello", it's really "you had me at ha-ha".

Okay, that was corny, but you get the point.

TAKE ACTION These are three of the fastest ways to attract a man. turn a man on and make him fall for you. Try them out the next time you're talking to that cute guy at the coffee shop.