Dating Russian women online is not really that different to dating someone locally. You see her, you introduce yourself, you figure out if there is mutual attraction and start to get to know each other. The rules of attraction are universal regardless of how you meet.

Online might share the chemistry of offline dating, but it also shares the stumbling blocks. For the inexperienced not familiar with this, everything might be going along great and suddenly her interest in you goes ice cold. Her emails are short and only come occasionally. Your girl won't reply to your messages regardless of how hard you try to get the spark back. You might get the "I only see you as a friend" email or even worse yet, she ignores you completely.

What Did You Do Wrong?

To answer this, lets look at how to kill a relationship and what you can do to avoid these fatal mistakes.

Trying To Impress Her

She comes from a poor background and only earns a few dollars an hour, so she will swoon when you impress her with your nice car and house. Right?

Wrong. If you try and impress her with your material possessions then you are only going to attract the women who want a sugar daddy. And you know what happens to men who get a trophy wife? A younger, better looking man ends up polishing it. The genuine women that are looking for a long term relationship tend to be interested in relationships and a personal connection, not your bank balance. Fill your emails which descriptions of what you own and she will quickly lose interest.

It's All About Me

Online dating is just the same as dating someone locally when you are getting to know them. I agree, you miss out on the body language when laughs or flirts with you, but that is what web-cams are for. So if you have made this mistake in past relationships then you are likely to do the same when dating online. And that mistake is attempting to make an impression by talking about yourself too much.

Attempt to be too interesting and you will drive off your date as easily it will drive off your internet girlfriend. In any relationship, sometimes you need to stop talking and listen. Are you simply talking about you or are you acknowledging what she is writing and forming a real conversation around that? Your conversations need to be well balanced if you want to fulfill her emotional expectations. If you don't then she will simply ignore your messages and look for someone who will.

Agreeing With Everything She Says

Universal law of dating number 2 - all women test men. It is not a written test and there are no answers. But it is a test to see if you are worth getting to know more amongst the crowd of men vying for her attention.

Your first test is - are you capable of standing up for what you think. Goal oriented men will express their opinions. They will avoid being aggressive about presenting their thoughts, but they will give their opinion in a dominant way. So if you find yourself agreeing with everything a woman says, she will quickly lose interest.

Look at this way, if you are similar in every facet, what do you have to talk about? There are no differences of opinion to create an interesting conversation. That's the best case scenario. The worst case is you deliberate avoid disagreeing with her or try and find out what she thinks first before stating your opinion. What you are doing her is giving her the lead in the relationship. She wants you to lead and act like a man. Don't give her your masculinity unless you like calling her 'mistress'.