Most guys want to last longer in bed. This is understandable because statistically the majority of men are totally inadequate to satisfy women. If you can't last at least 20 minutes then you are probably not giving your partner the kinds of orgasms she can have. While most guys are quite macho about it, underneath the surface the feeling of inadequacy to satisfy a woman can really injure your self esteem and tug at the very roots of your manhood.

The truth about premature ejaculation is that we can learn to control ejaculation. If you want to learn how to last longer in bed then you need to learn to control your ejaculation reflex. This takes time and for some it's more difficult to learn than for others.

You don't need to learn how to control ejaculation to make sex last longer. Yes, in the long terms it is well worth learning to do, but here are 3 quick fix solutions that you can use immediately.

1. Desensitize Yourself

Wearing a condom is probably the easiest way to make sex last longer. It will desensitize you and allow you to get less stimulation and last longer. You might want to experiment with different condoms as some are thicker. Also, ribbed condoms will give her more pleasure and help you to help her get there faster. Condoms are also less obvious and she won't think anything off it if you want to wear a condom.

2. Clean The Pipes

The term 'clean the pipes' was immortalized by the movie Something About Mary and is a great technique that can help you last longer in bed. The reason why most men suffer from premature ejaculation is because they get over-excited. The moment is too big and they race towards an orgasm too fast. By masturbating and ejaculating as close to sex as possible you will be able to delay ejaculation during sex.

3. Get On Top

Sex positions have a great influence on ejaculation. The most popular missionary position is actually one of the worse positions for a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation. You need to minimize all pressure on your pelvic area. If she is on top you will minimize the pressure and maximize the time you can last.