Attract and Seduce Women in 3 Easy Steps – Part 2

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  • Author Bill Johnson
  • Published December 3, 2010
  • Word count 722

This is the second article in a series of three about how to attract and seduce women in three easy steps. In it, will will discuss the second step, conversation, how to begin it and then take it to a level of sexual tension that she will not be able to resist.

Step 2. Conversation

Be prepared with a good opener. The first thing you say to her should be original and clever, preferable humorous. Never use stale pick up lines or gratuitous compliments. Believe me, they have heard it all before and doing this will just turn them off. If you don’t know any good opening lines, look some up on the Internet for some ideas. Be sure they are original and, hopefully, funny.

Your first objective is to get her to laugh. Keep it light and humorous at first. The sooner you get her laughing, the better. You want her to think of you as the "life of the party". Then she will be more at ease with you, plus women find men that can make them laugh much more attractive. The ability to attract and seduce women very much depends on your ability to get her laughing.

Once you get her laughing, start easing into seduction. You do this by creating sexual tension in the conversation. Slide in an occasional sexual innuendo. Nothing rude or crude, just suggestive. You can do this while maintaining a sense of humour.

Your facial expressions can aid greatly in seductive conversation. A well placed wink, a slight enigmatic smile when you say something suggestive. Your smile should be the kind of smile that will arouse her curiosity. Not a big, clownish smile, just slight and quizzical. The type of "I know something you don’t know" smile that makes her wonder what the hell you’re thinking.

Learn to speak to her desires, not her logic. This is key to attracting and seducing women. Don’t try to have a logical conversation with her. Women respond much more vigorously when you speak to their inner desires and emotions, not their logic.

Find out what triggers them sexually on a basic level. You can do this by asking her about what kind of guys she likes and what even what she would consider to be an ideal date or situation to be in with a man she is attracted to.

Once you find out those things, you can start to speak to her desires. Tell a story that paints a picture for her that fulfills those desires. Gage her reaction. The more she opens up to you, the deeper you can go with the story, adding seductive innuendo to increase sexual tension.

You can start this by first asking her who she thinks the sexiest person in the world is. Ask her this half jokingly after you already have her laughing and at ease.

Once you find out who this "person" is, you can ask her something like "so if you were alone with this person in the ideal place, where would you be?" The answer she gives you will be her romantic, possibly sexual, ideal encounter.

Use this information to develop a "story" about her fantasy. You can talk about the things her ideal "person" would do to her in the ideal situation. Elaborate, be specific. Paint a picture and get her to visualize it. This will get her extremely tense sexually (after all, it is her fantasy) which is the effect you are looking for.

Once you get her to this point, back off. Maybe start to joke around again. Bring her to the brink, but not over. Tease her (sexually) and leave her hanging. Like the old entertainers adage goes "always leave them wanting more."

This is another very important ingredient to attract and seduce women. It will leave her sexually frustrated and wanting you to "finish the deal." It will make her desire you more because you brought her to the brink and now she is looking for you to finish the job.

In my next article, I will discuss step 3, which is "closing the deal."

It’s easy to attract and seduce women, it just takes a little know how and practice. Soon it will become second nature and you will have women begging to go home with you.

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