Seducing your wife is so easy it's laughable.

So in this article, I'm going to share something powerful.

As someone who has helped hundreds of guys bring back the passion in their relationships (by doing things totally backwards), I discovered that most guys do things completely wrong. For starters, they focus on trying to convince her to have sex.

And when that doesn't work, they try to become better at convincing her to have sex.

In other words, they assume that her desire to have sex is driven by a decision.

Let would be like saying: "Sweetheart. It's been 14 days since you have cried about something. Can you cry for me right now."

More than likely, that is not the method to get her eyes "nice and watery".

It works the same way with sexual desire. There has to be a reason. She has to go through a sequence of emotional and/or psychological processes.

One of the first things that a guy in a relationship should do if he wants to get his woman turned on more often is he should think about all of the times in the past when she got extremely aroused.

The second thing he should do is pay attention to things that were happening during those times.

Finally, he should try to re-create what took place.

For example, if her sexual arousal kicks into gear every time the two of you go on vacation, then it's not going to be realistic to take a vacation every week. However, it is possible to figure out the psychological impact that a vacation has on her.

In reality, being in another location doesn't actually cause a woman to get turned on. It's her psychological response to being on vacation that really gets her turned on.

That's good news, because it means you can get her turned on a lot easier.

For your wife, it could be the feeling of relaxation that did it for her. If that's the case, then you can think about other ways to make her more relaxed while you're at home. Perhaps you could re-arrange the furniture to create a "new look" and then follow that with a massage.

The idea is to try different things to mimic the emotional impact of things that have proven to get her turned on.

One of the things that I tell guys is to take out a notepad file and start recalling all the times that she was extremely turned on. I'm talking about All-Star moments. And then start writing down different things that were going on at the time.

Another thing: In the future, anytime she gets extremely turned on, be sure to takes notes on things that were present in the environment.

You want to write down everything. You want this notepad (or Microsoft Word) file to grow.

It's like being a detective at a murder scene.

When detectives first arrive there, they start collecting all sorts of things, even though they have no idea if it will be relevant to catching the murderer.

You want to take the same approach when you want to seduce your wife. If you consistently collect "potential evidence", you will eventually see a pattern. And if you didn't go through this process, there's no way that you would have discovered this "secret blueprint" to getting her turned on.