In case you haven't noticed it yet, we're in digital age now and guess what? The rule of building attraction and seducing girls have changed drastically. If you don’t know how to flirt with a girl over text, you’ve got to get savvy to stay in the game. Below are 4 tips in texting game that you should always remember.

How to Begin

You met a cool girl the other night and she gave you her digits. Now it’s time to make the initial move. You’re gazing at your cell and you’re thumb is prepared to click away. So, what do you say?

Your first message ought to be short, humorous and playful. Most critical of all, it shouldn’t require a reply. Don’t ask her a question, even something such as "How were you feeling the next day?" Needless to say, you’re text messaging her to initiate a long distance conversation that’s going to wind up bringing you two closer together. Nevertheless, it shouldn’t look like that. If you look needy, or as if you want something in return, it’ll be a sure turn-off.

If she replies, you have your foot in the door. You can tell a lot by what she says. If it is a one word message, she’s cooling you and you need to give up on it. If she writes you back a proper message, all is good. But don’t jump all over that and hit her with a super-long text after that. Play it cool, realizing that she’s willing to keep it going.

The Magical Power Of Inside Jokes

What do you talk about? Talking about something that you have in common is a must, but there is a subject that far better than that: "inside jokes". You guys spent some time together somewhere, and if you’ve got a joke that only you two know, that’s the best connection you have. When you share inside jokes, you’ve already got a private life going together, even though it’s not much of one. Nonetheless, this is a doorway to intimacy. This tip is good for any kind of flirting, whether it’s text or not.

Make Use of Symbols And Emoticons

One of the special things text enables you to do is use symbols and emoticons. These are great and they help to make up for the nuances your tone of voice gives. Picture this – If a girl writes "Yeah, it had been fun," you can’t really tell. If she adds a little goofy smiley face, you have a much better idea that she means it.

But be careful – overusing symbols and emoticons makes you look like an idiot. It is great to use things like :) or "u" instead of "you," but avoid overdoing it with "gr8", "1 of a kind" or too much "ur" instead of "you’re." It makes you look cheap. Also, don’t over use exclamation points; they can make you look either cheerful or insane: "I had a great time last night!!cu next weekend!!"

Keep it Fun And Creative

Keep your messages fun and creative. You don’t want to be a tedious texter. Short messages are simply fine. What is important is for them to allow you to stand out from other men. Show her how witty you can be, and always take an interest in what she’s engaging in.

One more thing you should keep in mind is that everything you say to each other is being recorded. Be cool with your flirty texting and don’t write anything that could cause you serious trouble.