Conveying your feelings and sentiments to a woman is easier than telling it all to a man. Ever wondered why? The reason is that men and women converse in a very different manner. This may lead to a communication gap. Now it is on you to break this barrier of communication gap and wipe out the differences. If you're trying to keep your man and you don't know where to start with read on..

Women have a habit of elaborating things and talking in detail. They talk about their feelings and the intensity of those feelings and how they make them react. On the other hand, men speak precisely and often are to the point.

It is just like shopping. Something that a woman loves and men don’t. Women give so much to it than men. They spend hours browsing each and every product. Even those stuff that they don’t need. Whereas, men are very specific about what they need and where can he get it. So he goes in to buy that stuff and goes out taking it. Without indulging in unnecessary browsing.

So to have an effective conversation with your man, you should learn how to speak to him. It is vastly different than talking to your girlfriends. You should keep in mind never to talk about things he is sensitive to and which might rub him the wrong way. Those topics should be avoided at any cost. Also there are things that he just loves talking about and which be the key to keep your man happy.

You should concentrate on his body language. If he cuts you short while you are saying something, it means your approach is not correct. Don’t initiate the conversations by being judgmental about anything. Don’t sum up any conversation showing him his limitations and that you feel he should correct them. This might just ruin any chances to establish that level of understanding, which you need. Give preference to his wishes also without calling him selfish. Avoid controversial topics when he is upset.

Lend an ear to him when he needs you. Listen to him patiently and calmly and don’t make him feel that you are lecturing or dictating him. Remember that men are specific about what they say and what they say may not have a double meaning like you may think. Don’t chase a topic, which turns him furious, try to avoid it.

To keep your man closer to you is not difficult, make him feel that you are comfortable with any topic he wants to talk about. That will bring him very close to you.