If you want a woman to be madly addicted to you, then you're going to want to know how to create a deep connection.

For years I've been helping guys get more sex (and intimacy) in their relationship, by focusing on two basic things:

Increasing Your Sexual Value (doing things that make you desirable)

Increasing The Sexual Tension (doing things that get her turned on)

Earlier this year, I started to analyze women who became addicted to a particular guy and I noticed a "hidden" ingredient: The guy created a deep connection (whether he was trying to or not).

Let's talk another method to create a deep connection:

Connection Secret #1: Framing yourself as new.

This one is all about improving yourself.

Whenever you improve yourself (whether it's getting in better shape, making more money, improving your outlook, improving your confidence, improving how you interact with others, improving your diet, whatever), you end up transforming into a new person.

You get treated differently.

People respond to the subtle signals you project.

Women are addicted to new things (i.e. the new purse is ALWAYS more valuable then their current purse).

They're addicted to the quest a something NEW.

During sex, women value (more so than men) the seduction process (leading up to sex).

One way to start the process, is to give her a speech that reframes yourself in a new way.

Here are some examples of 'I feel like a new man' speeches - just so you can see how easy it is to do.

You: For some reason, I feel differently. I can't explain it, but I've been feeling incredible lately. I've been working out a little more. I've decided to look at things differently. And I've been feeling amazing lately.

You: Have you every had that feeling like you're a new person? The other day I woke up and I decided that I'm going to approach life totally different. And I didn't know how I was going to do it and in an instant I felt this sensation go through my body and I've been feeling incredible ever since. It was kind of weird, people have been treating me differently.

Here's the experiment: Give her one of these speeches - craft it really good - and then pay attention to how she responds. You're going to notice an obvious change any time you do this (with anyone).

In conclusion, building a connection is critical, the woman needs to feel drawn to you if you want to take things to new levels. Other tips: Focus on understanding her more than anyone else. Focus on creating the affect that you have more in common than she initially realized.