Writing endearing short love poems means that your recipient feels much closer and much more special to you after she reads your love words. I imagine the recipient would be your spouse. Writing something that makes her feel special is about your partner feeling understood, received, seen and appreciated. It means you get who she is, and most importantly, she feels that you understand her.

That’s the easiest way to write something endearing. And her feeling understood is not based upon your own estimation, but hers. You might think you understand and appreciate her, but if she doesn’t feel that way, then you don’t. Think of the TV show "Tool Time" where Tim Taylor buys his wife some tools for her birthday. He thinks he’s loving her. She doesn’t feel the same. She is the judge of whether she feels understood, loved and appreciated.

To write such a love poem does not require that you be skilled in writing. It just means that you have the intention of understanding her. You have to want to understand her, even if you’re not that great at it. You can’t label her. You can’t categorize her. You can’t analyze her. You can’t try to make her fit into a box of what you know. She doesn’t. The way you understand her is by beginning to pay attention to her feelings. Not so much her words. A big mistake men make is to pay attention to her words. That will get your balls whacked off every time. You gotta pay attention to her feelings. Women speak in feelings. What do her feelings want?

If you do nothing more than put to words the feelings she is experiencing, you will already be more than halfway to understanding your wife and to her feeling like you get her. But again, there can be judgement, no strings attached, no expectations, no ulterior motives. Your intentions must be pure.

If that’s all you do, you’ve hit a home run. Your wife will more than likely feel deeply understood. To seal the deal requires the intention that you have, your intention to understand her as she is, not as you want her to be. As long as your intention remains pure throughout, then no matter what you write, you will have written a truly endearing short love poem.