How To Talk To Women

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  • Author Carlos Xuma
  • Published April 19, 2011
  • Word count 523

Right now, if you close your eyes, chances are you can recall

where almost everything is in your bedroom, or another room in your

apartment that you are very familiar with.

Here's how you use "Situational Rehearsal" technique. It's

based on the way your brain really learns.

And you'll get at least 10 times better retention and recall of

information if you use it...

In my previous example, you came up with a great way to talk about

photography, your passion. And you came up with a great way to

actually SAY it to a woman. You may even have some of my "Power

Questions" that you want to memorize to use.

Now you have to practice recalling these things in MANY different

locations, and in many different situations.

You would want to do stuff like:

  • Recall and recite the words when you're in the shower.

  • Call your home voicemail and recite it back as a message.

This one is great. It will put you "on the spot" - AND it will give

you a chance to review how you said it later. You can do this with

your cell phone voicemail, too.

  • Recall and recite when you're driving in the car.

  • Recall the words when you're watching a television show, as if

you're saying it to the people on the screen.

  • Recall and recite when you're out on a city street. (Just whisper

it so that people don't think you're crazy.)

But if you REALLY want to improve by leaps and bounds in your inner

and outer game of conversation, here's a KILLER bonus technique:

  • Put a bluetooth headset on (or any cell phone earpiece so it

looks like you're talking on your phone). Then, go out and recite

what it is you're memorizing when you're out in public on a city

street or in a store.

Don't worry, other people will just assume you're talking to

someone on your cell phone. But this method will help you get over

your fear of looking foolish in front of other people.

AND it gives you a killer rehearsal for saying it in front of a

woman. You get your shyness out of the way, and you build

confidence in the process.

(I used to do this all the time, and make up some pretty crazy

conversations to see if I could get people around me to listen in.

"He hit the cop with a baseball bat??? No WAY!" Try it sometime...

it's better than prank phone calling.)

The point of this is that you must get out there and put yourself

in as many DIFFERENT situations where you have to recall the

information you're trying to memorize.

The more situations you find to rehearse in, the better you'll be

when it counts - in front of a woman.

By using my technique, you activate millions more neurons in your

brain, which commits the words DEEP into your memory. And then this

helps you pull out the words when you really need to, and you won't

have any of those embarrassing gaps and silences in your

conversations with women.

And to get more How To Talk To Women and a free e-book... You can also get a free newsletter on How To Talk To Women at http://www.carlosxuma.com/

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