Low libido in women is a huge problem. In fact there are millions of women who are suffering from a low sex drive and many men who are left feeling like it is their fault somehow. It can have a huge effect on the dynamics of the relationship. The real reason usually does not involve the man at all but instead factors from outside the relationship.

Common causes for a low libido are stress, depression, anxiety, and bad circulatory system. If she has been having a highly stressful time lately then you may find that she's just never in the mood for sex. If she smokes and/or doesn't exercise then she may have a poor circulatory system which also contributes to a low sex drive.

While changing the stress level, depression, and anxiety may take a little time to fix they are definite things to work on. Whatever the issues are you need to communicate with her and find out how to relieve the negative emotions. You can also try getting her to exercise with you as this will not only benefit her circulatory system but also her negative feelings.

There are things you can do to help get her in the mood which all involve relieving her stress and making her feel good. Once you begin regularly having sex then her libido may increase on its own. It's a case of the more you get the more you want. Here are 4 feel good tricks that will help get her in the mood and work through her low sex drive.

1. Compliment Her and Make Her Feel Good

Women want you to make them feel good. You are the one person who should always be lifting them up and making them feel beautiful. And if you can make her feel good the higher your chances are of getting lucky. Don't fake it and say things that aren't true as that will make her mad, but be sincere and make her feel like she is highly desirable to you in all ways and not just sexually.

Compliment her appearance by telling her how great she looks today, or how young she looks. Touch her skin and tell her how soft her skin is. Touch her hair and tell her how soft her hair is. Get her thinking about the positive attributes about her and she will start to want to show them off to you.

Also compliment her skills in life. If she is an expert at cleaning up quickly then let her know that, or if she can make a delicious supper out of anything let her know that too. You can never go wrong by telling her that she is great at doing stuff. She will appreciate it and your chances of sex with increase.

2. Relieve Her Stress.

Once you have her feeling good about herself start to relieve her stress for the day. A woman will never be in the mood when she is stressed out, so if you want her to become in the mood then you may have to help her out a bit. Take away a chore that she normally has to do, or treat her to a little pampering like a bath and massage. If she is worried about tomorrows events or a bill or anything else try to relieve her stress by reassuring her and making her feel better.

3. Get Her Senses Involved.

Once you compliment her and relieve her stress then you can start getting her brain ready for sex. A woman needs to be turned on with all of her senses to really get in the mood. You may need pop in a sexy movie or talk about a sexy past moment. Get her thinking about her favorite moves in bed and what she likes done to her. For instance if she likes her neck kissed then give her neck a simple yet sexy kiss. Remind her of what sex is like and she will start to want to experience it.

4. Make it About Her

If you have been having problems getting her to have sex then you need to make the whole moment about her. Sorry guys. Don't expect a lot in return the first few times because you may turn her off. If you expect stuff from her then she can feel it and it begins to feel more stressful to her than relaxing. Expectation and demands are part of what stresses her out in everyday life and she doesn't need that feeling in the bedroom as well. It can also make her feel like the only reason you want to jump into bed is for your pleasure and not hers. Focus on her pleasure and you will be rewarded soon enough.

So remember these 4 tricks to help get her in the mood and use them as often as you can. You will find that once she starts to feel better about stress and about your relationship you will start to have more fun in the bedroom.