Women can be quite unpredictable. For this reason, some men find sex intimidating. However, this does not mean you need to memorize all the complicated lovemaking techniques from self-help sex guide in order to please a woman. You can still bring a woman to orgasm if you are able to master the simple things that give her pleasure. The more you can give her what she desires, the more you will get her sexual trust, gain increase sexual confidence on your part and also get turn on by her high state of sexual arousal.

Here is what every woman is asking for from her partner:

(1) Stimulate her clitoris orally

Most women can easily reach orgasm when you flick your tongue quickly along the length of her clitoris. The clitoris, which is solely for her to get sexual pleasure, extends deep inside a woman’s body. Therefore when you do this, you are bringing her sensational pleasure way beyond your tongue’s reach. The proper way to do is to pull the clitoral hood back gently and then make quick, darting motions with your tongue as far down along the shaft as your tongue can reach.

(2) Teasing her

Teasing works effectively to get her aroused because it keeps her guessing. Predictability can often dampen her mood. Women usually are not able to respond well if from the starting, you zoom right in very aggressively to her sensitive areas.

Most women love it when a guy teases her by making circles around the breasts with his finger or tongue before going for the nipples. This is because the area surrounding the erogenous zones (nipples in this case) is normally very sensitive to sexual stimulation. You start at the point where her breast starts to rise from the chest. You then use your fingertips to circle slowly inward around her nipple and when you are about to reach it, you pull back for another tantalizing spin before you suck and gently bite the nipple.

It will be best if you can combine the nibbling of her nipples with touching her sensitive spot(s) between her legs. For many women, lightly biting the nipples produces a tingle in their genitals, especially the clitoris.

Another effective way to tease her is to penetrate her slowly. You can be inside or halfway in or very close to getting inside; you go in super slow, suddenly pause for a few seconds and resume entering her inch by inch using this start-and-stop motion.

(3) Stroking her very lightly

Women like it a lot when you can show appreciation for her body. After you undress her, you take her hand and stand facing her. You brush her hair back and using your fingertips you move your hands all the way up and down over the surface of her skin before you make love to her.

(4) Applying firm pressure on the area right under her belly button

When you are thrusting, you gently press the heel of your hand onto her belly button. Bury inside her body under her belly button is actually the location of her G-Spot. The reason most women are not able to get orgasm through penetration in the normal missionary position is because the male sexual organ is not able to be in direct contact with her G-Spot. However, if you can press her on her G-Spot from the outside when you enter her, you are pushing her G-Spot forward to increase the chance of direct contact with your penis which can trigger orgasm from her.

(5) Blowing over after you wet her

This is like blowing on a bowl of soup to cool it off. You lick on any of her erogenous spot (such as nipples, private parts, neck, etc), you moist the area either with your saliva or other form of liquid which can be alcohol or ice-cube. You then blow on the wet patch. The trick is if you can apply very contrasting form of sensation (such as hot and cold or hard or soft) in close succession on her pleasure spot, you can create those sexy tingles down her spine.

(6) Combine thrusting with rocking

You choose a rocking chair that is comfortable for her and a footstool or low table that puts you at the right thrusting height. The back-and-forth rocking motion can intensify her sensation because this can increase the chance of hitting her G-Spot.

Any position or movement that can get the lower part of her body to be at a higher level than your genitals can easily bring direct contact to her G-Spot. One other easy way you can achieve this is to put a pillow under her butt before you enter her in the missionary position.

(7) Applying push-and-pull sensation to her erogenous spots

You pucker up your lips and seal them on any of her erogenous spots (such as her nipple). Then you alternatively breathe in through your nose to create a vacuum and breathe out through your mouth to put pressure on the surrounding area. You repeat and keep increasing the intensity of your action.

This is applying the same principle of using contrasting sensation on her sensitive spot. You can do the same on the area near to or around her clitoris. Instantly your mouth will become like a improvised vibrator on her. Before long, she will enjoy this so much that she begs you for more.

(8) Alignment of your hips slightly above hers

During normal thrusting, a woman’s clitoris is usually neglected. So, if you position your hips above hers, during thrusting your penis shaft will be able to remain in direct contact with her clitoris.