Attract Men Using Open Body Language

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  • Author Jane Smith
  • Published June 8, 2011
  • Word count 539

Attractive body language equals open body language and although both are subconscious acts and gestures that already come inbuilt as standard, if you're more aware of what your own body is saying, you might become better at attracting men.

It's really quite easy because you can send unspoken messages to all of the men around you. Like sending out your very own personal silent beacon and when he picks you up on his radar, he will know that you're ready to be approached.

Appear Open Instead Of Closed

Using Open body language is one of the easiest ways to attract men. If you see someone you like but are too shy to approach them, instead make sure you are in a position where he can see you. Open positions including feet pointed towards your person of interest, knees apart, elbows away from your body, hands not touching and legs stretched and uncrossed are all positions that are perceived as positive and more persuasive than closed positions that include, legs crossed at the knee or ankle, arms crossed, hands folded on lap or your torso pointing away from the person you are trying to attract.

Eye Brow Arch

Eye contact flirting is incredibly attractive body language, so show a bit of confidence by not being afraid to look someone directly in the eye. If you're a bit too shy for that, at least try not to look down, as this shows weakness and is not very attractive at all. If you are confident enough to look someone directly in the eye, play on the fact that the eyes are the most expressive part of your body, especially when you use them to entice by e arching an eyebrow to show interest or amusement.

Mirroring

Mirroring is attractive because when matching other people's moods, or actions you are putting them at ease and creating a level of comfort between you both. It lets them know you are in sync with what they're saying and like you are forming a non-verbal connection. Good body language however should ensure that you are imitating them and not mimicking them. This can be fine line if you are trying to do this on purpose to get them on your side, rather than letting it happen naturally. The last thing you want is to be making them feel you are mocking them.

Posture

Attractive body language has a lot to do with your posture, so it's very important to be mindful of this. Try not to slouch, look down, fidget or fiddle. Instead, stand tall, balance your weight evenly between your legs to prevent swaying and ensure your hands have something to do, like hold your drink. Fidgeting gives the appearance of an awkward nervousness that is not very attractive at all.

When it comes to attractive body language, as a women you've already got it in the bag. You already have the tools to do the job you might just need to know where you need to brush up a bit but also where you might be able to get away with pushing the envelope that little bit further. Take pride in your appearance, stand straight and proud, smile and you've already got it covered.

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