The world of relationship is like a Kaleidoscope
- Author Ron Sukenick
- Published June 27, 2012
- Word count 507
When we fundamentally understand that we have a multitude of considerations
that impact how we are in relationship, our view of change and the
importance of change is magnified.
Let’s take a few minutes and communicate about relationships and change.
When you were a youngster, did you enjoy looking into a Kaleidoscope?
Were you amazed at the infinite varieties of colors and patterns that evolved as it turned in your hand? Did you ever turn it so quickly that you did not have a chance to fully appreciate what you were watching because things were changing so quickly in the little viewer?
The changes in the viewer pale in comparison to the changes experienced in the last decade--and the changes we will experience in the years to come.
There was very little to think about when turning that little Kaleidoscope:
just look and enjoy. If you view the world of relationship as a Kaleidoscope,
you will see change. Rather than standing there mesmerized or memorizing
the colors and patterns as if you can keep things the same, imagine what it
might be like to be the colors.
For openers, think about every second of
your life, every minute, every day, being different from the preceding second,
minute, or day. No two interactions or opportunities are the same, just
as the patterns in the Kaleidoscope are never the same. Changes are
inevitable--in behavior, in life patterns, in your knowledge base, in your
habits, and in your relationships. We are not the same person we were even
moments ago.
People change. Look around you. Are there new people in your life that
were not there a month ago, six months ago, last year? Get to know people
around you, and get involved with them. Don’t just observe the changes passively, as if you are looking into a viewer. Be a part of them. Get to know
people you come into contact with, what they do, what makes them tick.
Become interested in them and how you can help them. They’ll do the same
for you and you’ll enjoy life more.
Technology changes. Are you still using the same equipment as one, two,
five years ago? Not very likely. And the equipment you are now using will
become obsolete in the near future. Further more, staying abreast of the
technological changes and discussing preferred communication tools with
your partner is key in developing a collaborative relationship.
Leadership techniques change. When was the last time you picked up and
read a management book for insight about new management and leadership
practices?
An understanding of the changing needs of today’s workforce (that’s all of
us!) will help you be more progressive and able to meet and partner with
others within or outside your organization.
Economic factors, urgency, people’s values, technology, and relationship
management: all changing everyday, truly a Kaleidoscope. You can become
a part of the Kaleidoscope--get inside the viewer--and be the one who
determines the next pattern, if you make up your mind to.
Ron is the Chief Relationship Officer and founder of the Relationship Strategies Institute, a training and Relationship development company that provides innovative, effective and relevant programs and systems for corporations, organizations, and associations. Visit his Web site at www.ronsukenick.com or e-mail him at – rs@ronsukenick.com
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