Let’s face it, casual sex is fun. Or at least, it is supposed to be. And, if all parties agree, consent, and are expecting nothing else, that’s exactly what it will be.

If you just want to get laid, there are many options open to you. Bars, night clubs, and music venues are often filled with people looking for exactly the same thing that you are. Sex. Most people, either men or women, make it perfectly clear that that’s what they are interested in as soon as they find somebody that they are attracted to. Guys, if she is laughing at those stupid jokes, you are probably on the right track. And girls, if he’s telling those jokes in the first place, you probably are too. Let him know you are interested with a few well placed laughs.

Most singles bars are well-known to be exactly that. Most of the patrons know and just by going there in the first place are making some kind of statement about what they are looking for. If you are a single heterosexual male, you probably won’t find what you are looking for in a gay bar. If you knowingly go into a singles bar, the chances are that someone will try to pick you up. That’s the whole point of singles bars.

But, if you are new to the area, or are just staying for a short while, what then? How do you find those singles bars that everyone else already knows about? If you are staying in a hotel, start by asking the concierge. He or she probably doesn’t get off work until about midnight and will likely know the sort of places you are looking for. If they don’t go to those kind of places, try asking the waitresses and bartenders in one of the chain restaurants that will likely be close to your hotel. These people also, probably don’t finish work until the dinner shift is over and one of them will likely know where to go.

The internet is also a good option. Many singles now advertise for what they are looking for on the internet. Some online dating services only offer a service for finding a long term partner, but many other services are geared towards the less serious short-term relationship. i.e. a one night stand. Give them a try, you might be surprised how easy it is to find someone looking for a casual relationship and may even prefer someone from out-of-town. There are many different services out there, some are very well established, but there are new ones coming online all the time. If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. A quick look through the types on offer will give you a good idea as to which one will suit your particular tastes.

Obviously, the pickings are likely to be richer in a larger, more cosmopolitan city than in a smaller, provincial town. But don’t discount the smaller towns you may have found yourself in, there are people looking for someone like you everywhere.

Developing casual sex only relationships can be tricky sometimes, especially if you do happen to live in a smaller community. It is only a matter of time before you find yourself with the kind of reputation you may not want. But, unless you live in Juno, Alaska, there is probably another town a short distance down the road. And a weekend trip out of town is always an option. The good thing about these sort of trips is that you are unlikely to run into any embarrassing situations.

Once you have found a potential partner, just remember, AIDS is prevalent nowadays. Be careful, use protection, especially if you do not know the other person very well.

Having said that, assuming you are prepared to be careful, get out there and have some fun. Who knows what the night holds in store?