The truth is that single women don't want sex - they want good sex and romance. Women's desires are much greater than most men realize.

But, unlike men, who are just after sex, single women are looking for great sexual experiences. Single women are very discriminating and choosy in picking sexual partners.

They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that:

• Sexually arouses them.

• Promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be good in bed.

Single women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.

The fact that single women are choosy about who they go to bed with and have sex with is a dilemma for men, but there is one nice aspect to this trait.

Single women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and they say no to change partners. Single women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this big desire to stay in a relationship because sex exists only as long as the sex is good.

The last thought is something that we have come to realize is a cardinal rule to be used in reading women.

That is: SINGLE WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH. At first, this phrase may sound too simple and obvious to have any wisdom to it, but let us expand on it.

The meaning behind it is, that if a woman decides that she would like to sleep with someone, she will pursue that person relentlessly. And on the other hand, if a woman has decided that she is not interested in sleeping with someone, no amount of pursuit or persuasion is going to move her. Many men have wasted their precious time and energy by ignoring this reality.

Almost everyone sure wouldn’t mind being good in bed. But what does that mean, exactly? Is it a gift you’re born with or something anyone can learn? Does it boil down to technical skills or just a super-confident or sensual vibe? To find out, we asked single people to pinpoint what makes for an unforgettable night.

Here’s what truly makes a difference:

Go ahead and get personal, be very intimate

Have a laugh

Stop obsessing about your flaws

Speak up if something is not working

Add some spontaneity

Don’t be too goal-oriented

Tap into your sensual side

Ask for feedback

Always try something new