I am having sex with you but I am thinking of someone else...

Social IssuesSexuality

  • Author Vladian Enache
  • Published December 22, 2007
  • Word count 597

Making love thinking of somebody else can't be free love: "I'm in love with somebody and I'm thinking of this person even I'm having sex with another one", neither imaginative love: " I'm in love with someone who I can't be with , I'm having sex only in my mind with this person" and there is no attempt to forget a lost love with a sexual implication with another person, but also with a lot of emotional investment in that love that was lost for good.

We flirt, fall in love, make sex and every night we search each other company. For a period of time we stay at home, almost never go out because sex is seemed to be the perfect way to spear some time together.

But it's not only about sex, it's involving a lot of affection, tenderness, gifts, future plans. Of course, sometimes we are arguing, because all these little fights give more spices to our every day relationship.

All we know is that there is nobody else but ourselves in this world with no ex girlfriends and boyfriends. There we are, very passionate and there is no intruder in our world made for two.

Do you recognize this situation? Of course every relation is like this at the beginning of it. But also you have to admit that almost every each of you have been declare the strongest feelings at least with five other ones!!!

I think I don't have to explain why the love disappear in maximum two years, why the power of those strong emotions wasn't for ever and ever…

There are studies about the fact that women have a very good and vivid imagination, populated with a lot of handsome men who can appear every time women close their eyes.

The big thing is that those imaginary men can also whisper the most nice things in the world, touch and take their clothes of and then make love to women and go back in their big and complex imagination.

There's nothing wrong in it , isn't it? Or immoral? Or desperate? But what's happening when women imagine those things even in a sex match with a real man?

Of course, there are just a few who could admit that this is a reality in their lives, but also you should also be honest that it's happening .

You don't have the courage to say this to your partner, isn't it? But you are doing it…in your imagination always with someone new or ….with someone who is a constant in your fantasies …..

Do you fell guilty because of this? Hmm…I don't think so! But I don't want that your partners would be happy to discover this thing about you.

It' ok to have secrets like this, innocent ones, little ones…and more when this situation can't harm anyone…I think…

It's great that you can transform a sex match into something more exciting and interesting imagining things…and of course it's good for both partners in the relation, isn't it?

You can't fight with you fantasy , the attraction is very strong. The facts became a problem when the imaginary partner participate most of the time in your love intermezzo.

So, if this happens to you…the only thing you can do is to admit that…you have a problem and that you have to ask yourself several questions about your relation status, about your life partner.

There is only a problem…Women come with one or two imaginary handsome men , but if men also would come with their several sensational imaginary women???

This is an article written by Enache Vladian , an honest author, http://www.articleszones.com/

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