Be better in bed in 10 steps!

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  • Author Vladian Enache
  • Published January 1, 2008
  • Word count 686

Almost everyone sure wouldn’t mind being good in bed. But what does that mean, exactly? Is it a gift you’re born with or something anyone can learn? Does it boil down to technical skills or just a super-confident or sensual vibe? To find out, we asked single people to pinpoint what makes for an unforgettable night.

Here’s what truly makes a difference:

Shave.

Women prefer shaved men because of the less problems caused by beard. Guys, you're great without it!!! Weekend stubble might look sexy but it feels like sandpaper.

Kiss her where she's not expecting it.

Pay attention to ignored spots of her body. Touch the edge of her ears, hip bone, collarbone, back, and any scars she might have. Kissing her imperfections will make her feel beautiful, if you know something about them?! Usually, guys don't have eyes to notice those things that make us, women, feel self-conscious. It's great to be discovered this way and every woman have her favorite places to be kissed. You are invited to find those!

Cook for her.

Prepare a dinner of finger foods or pasta sans fork. The combination of fingers and lips is unstoppable. This is not a must. You can improvise something you know she likes the best. Try food with aphrodisiac properties, something like strawberries, bananas, nuts, peaches, red meat, eggs,drink coffee, also red wine and beer, but moderately, because the effect is good only this way!

Watch romantic movies together.

Women can play into the power of suggestion. Something like Unfaithful, Pretty Woman, Cruel Intentions, Meet Joe Black, and 9 1/2 Weeks.

You can try also listening to the music she likes the most. You can always count on a beautiful sound to feel relax and ready for love!

Take notes.

Listen to what she does and doesn't say, and most importantly, watch how her body reacts. This way you'll be able to find what she wants and what she likes.The best lover is an attentive one.

Spoil her.

Every girl secretly, or not so secretly, wants to be pampered and treated like a princess. Surprise her with a long massage using aphrodisiac massage oils and a night full of her favorite things. Women need attention and to be listen.Guys, make them happy and you'll be happy too!

Go dancing.

From time to time go out with her in a club and why not surprise her asking her for a dance when you are at a romantic dinner. If you're not the best dancer, sway closely in the privacy of your own home. There you can be more closer to her, felling more confident and being just 2 of you!

Apply a little cologne.

Remember, a little can go a long way. The just-out-of-the-shower smell or a small spray on your neck will drive her wild. There is no particular cologne or aftershave can make women go crazy. It's important to be something fresh, marine, spiced or sweet all these in small doses.

Visit a lingerie store.

Women want to wear what they know you like. Take the time to find out what she likes too. You have to know if she likes sport, romantic or very sexy lingerie.Surprise her buying something. If you don't know how to pick the right one ask a woman to help you. You'll always receive a good advice!

Help her fantasize.

Initiate pillow talk with a little storytelling. Communication is the key to success, even when you're in bed. If your girl is shy, tell her about some of your tamer fantasies. Then ask sexy questions to get her more comfortable.You have to relax a lot when it's about confession in bed. Putting smiles on your faces is a good way to come true any fantasy!

Also, you may try some ideas like below:

Go ahead and get personal, be very intimate

Have a laugh

Stop obsessing about your flaws

Speak up if something is not working

Add some spontaneity

Don’t be too goal-oriented

Tap into your sensual side

Ask for feedback

Always try something new

Good luck to you all!!!

The author of this article :

Enache Vladian, an honest author, http://www.datingeuropeonline.com/

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