Have you ever looked at Madonna or Marilyn Monroe and wish you had that certain sex factor? Well, there is no reason why you cant. Even though only /1 of us can enjoy a sex goddess status without resorting to cosmetic surgery or 10 hours a day in the gym. The real difference between an attractive woman and a sex goddess is simply a matter of attitude.

You don't have to doll yourself up to the nines to look irresistible. Sensual dressing is what really counts. Spend as much as you can bear on well cut clothing in a natural, touchable fabric. They hang a lot better and enhance your best bits. Makes you want to swish around, muttering 'because I am worth it". The bottom line is, if you feel confident, you will look confident and that is a big turn on.

There is nothing goddess like about endlessly going on about diets, telling him you have lost 2kgs in a week eating cabbage soup will not entice him. The simple solution is to share these triumphs with your girlfriends instead. After all, it's a fact that men would choose a voluptuous figure over a skinny rake any day. So celebrate that little extra.

In any long-term relationship you are not going to be looking longingly at each other over the breakfast table everyday. So reinject that flirtatious feeling, this needs effort from both parties. And that's probably not going to happen at home, surrounded by kids and housework. You need to go our on a date and remind yourselves that you are actually a god and goddess. Choose a cosy restaurant or bar then dress up. Arrive separately and make a pact beforehand to avoid talking about the kids or work. The aim is to remind each other of what attracted you to each other in the first place. Keep the conversation light, with plenty of eye gazing. If you feel like a couple of prize idiots, take the pressure off and go to the movies instead, there you can at least hold hands.

Tantalize him with a kiss, the sort that makes him forget to breathe. There are thousands of nerved endings in the lips, you your aim should be to stimulate. The neck is also very sensitive and by caressing it you are creating a deeply intimate connection. You can also run your fingers down his spine, scratch lightly when you get to the base. Frontal areas to focus on include hips and stomach. Tease him by seeping your hand near to his genitals. Guaranteed to work him into a frenzy.

Dump the old T-shirt you wear to bed, its not really a good turn on that says take me. Men's sexuality is based largely on anticipation so you need a tantalising selection of boudoir wear. Go for Lace, satin, ribbon, mesh and bows. Make sure your bra is fitted properly. Buy a wide suspender belt for an air of 50's glamour.

Take control, he will adore you for making the first move, it will make him feel totally desirable. Then all you need to do is manoeuvre him into a position that works for you. Lets face it, trying to get his n hers simultaneous orgasms is like docking a space station while wearing a blindfold, but there are certain positions that increase the chances of orgasm.

To be a true sex goddess you got to talk it like you walk it, which means talking dirty. The trouble is that it doesn't come naturally for mos of us. On a whole men are aroused by earthy, sexual language, but if this fails to drive you crazy with desire, a compromise can easily be reached. Together write down say 20 phrases and words that turn you on. Take turns at reading them, vary your speed, put on an accent, have a laugh. The idea is to get used to speaking the works out loud. Practise until it feels comfortable and then you can start putting words together. Bear in mind that talking dirty can turn into a tedious monologue if you're not careful.