You had sex with your mate and that was the last time you saw him or got a call from him. Well do not wonder anymore. You could have done a few things that really turned him off and after that night, he wasn't thinking well we you can work around that, he was thinking, he doesn't want to subject himself to that! Instead of calling him to find out why he left let him go. Unless you really like him and you were hoping he was going to be the one don't follow him up you will only regret it. The first day you have sex with your partner can be awkward, you are only trying to please each other and might end up doing it all wrong.

You probably got carried away during your love making and your blurted out that you wanted to have a baby with him soon, if possible that very day. Well that did it. Men sometimes fear commitment and there is nothing that says commitment more than having babies together. To them that means you have both your lives planned out and it scares him that he had not thought of that yet. To him, he was taking it slowly with little attachments as possible. When you drop the baby line you make him want to get out and find someone they can be casual with without much commitment on their part. Perhaps that is the reason you had sex and he left.

The simple lies you tell could also be the reason he left you. You could be thinking you are great and you did okay but he could be thinking this little woman lied to me. You could have even forgotten you had told him and you even swore to be a virgin and that you had kept it all for the perfect man only for him to discover after that night with you that you are not a virgin. Some guys would rather be told the truth than be lied to. If they can not trust you on important things like that, how sure is he that he can trust you on small things. Relationships are based on honesty and trust. So if you had sex and he left, that could be the reason.

You did nothing to help him during the love making. All you did was laid back and relaxed and wait for him to be finished. Well, everyone needs a little help and he would have appreciated it more if you tried to at least do something to help him along. Both your desires have to be satisfied and at that moment you were acting selfish and mean. You also did nothing to entice him, you left it all to him to figure out what you wanted him to do. In short you were totally hopeless and helpless and not in a good way. You just did not know what to do and how to do it. You should by now probably know why you had sex and he left without saying good bye. He is also not calling and he doesn't want you to call him either.