You want to get back your ex? Yeah sure you can. But if you want to "get back your ex now" sorry you cant. The keyword here is NOW. You can’t build your love in an instant just like that isn’t it? And also you break off does not happen in a day isn’t it? Similarly it would take time to get back your ex immediately.

It takes time and patience:

You see, after you break up with your loved one, both you and your love are going through a lot of emotions which are very unstable. If you take any decision during this period of time, it has a 95% probability that it can go wrong. You need to stay positive and persistent on getting your love back. If you value your love so much, you can sure wait some days.

Being persistent doesn’t mean constant arguments with your ex:

Most of the people who deserve to get back with their ex, sabotage their own chance of winning their love back by immediately calling their ex and trying to explain how they value their love and ask for a chance to love again. But this will for sure not work out. Instead it will only project you as a person with no self respect and desperate for love.

Don’t be desperate, that will kill your love 100%

Have you ever seen a desperate sales man, running behind you, calling you like a pest trying to sell what he has got to offer. Even if he has some product of value, you will never ever consider buying from him just for the trouble he caused you trying to sell. You can see his desperateness to sell the product. Psychologically your mind thinks that when something or somebody is desperate, they will only have very little value to offer. Similarly when you constantly trouble your ex, trying to get them back, it will only make them see you as a pest trying to creep inside.

So don’t beg or argue

Just be sorry for breaking up, tell your ex how much you respect his/her words. That’s it, no contacts then. I know its hard not to speak with your ex and tell them your point of view, but resist that feeling. If you want to get back your ex, you should resist that feeling.

Divert your mind:

If you keep yourself idle, having nothing to do but worry, it is only going hurt you much and eventually you will call up your ex and start arguing. Instead go hang out with friends, get some gym memberships and start doing exercises. Read some good novels and books (not those romantic ones please). Avoid any contact with your ex as for as possible.

So, we have seen about the first steps you should take to reach your goal of getting back your ex. Then just stay positive, build your self respect and wait for atleast one month before you call up again. But when you call your ex again, you should have lost all that desperate feeling you were having to get your ex back. If you are not ready still, wait for some more time. If you are in a hurry it will only make things worse.