There's a lot of talk around about long, all night sex, and the need for extensive foreplay to get things going, the need for sex toys and changing positions twenty times to extend the session. Now, there's nothing wrong with extended sexy escapades, they're certainly needed in any sexually active relationship. However, let's not forget about the unsung champion, the 'quickie'.

Many men feel that for the most part women don't like these speedy encounters, or that women aren't satisfied by them. This suggestion, as unfortunately widespread as it is, can't be further from the truth. But on the other side of the coin, a lot of women out there assume that asking for a crazy sexual reunion over the couch or at the office will make them look easy or dirty. I beseech you, don't think in that manner. Men that think less of women for needing to convey her sexuality and her desire for him in unusual places are the exception to the rule.

The run of the mill woman, while pleasuring herself, can climax in less than three minutes, the exact same woman can reach the same end in a bit less than 8 minutes through standard intercourse. Attach the emotional strength of a quickie in the back of a pickup, and the further thrill of the possibility of being seen will often assist those participating in reaching the end result even more quickly. This means that most of the time a woman are plenty satisfied by end of a fast session, and even if time runs out before either or both get to reach orgasm it's still enjoyable and can add some fun to your day.

Sex toys also have the ability to improve the 'quickie' experience as they aren't always 100% spur-of-the-moment. For those couples who are experienced users of sex toys, or those who might want to try some new things, keep a travel sized sex toy or two with you next time you have a day out. If you keep a travel sized, discrete sex toy with you gives you many more options for excitement when the feeling hits. There are sex toys that vibrate (which should typically only be used where the ambient noise level is high which are easily be used on both women and men, there are also 'fingers' which are more often than not rubber or silicone and are placed over the tip of your finger and almost always have added bumps or ridges for added pleasure. In addition, you can get sex toys that are meant to please the man such as special gloves used to enhance stimulation by hand.

There are many popular places to rendez-vous, including:

In your kitchen

In the back of a truck

In a supply closet

In a public bathroom (make sure it's clean first)

In the woods while hiking

Or whenever you're feeling frisky!

So don't forget, chiefly for you shy women out there, don't be timid, tell your lover if you're in need of some love and let those creative juices flow! Very often the best sex can be fast sex in a random, never-before used place at 1:54 p.m.