Passionate love making may seem like a far off memory that only occurred for some when they were young teenagers full of unfulfilled sexual energy. Now, you’ve grown up. You’ve started a family and a career. You have other obligations to take care of. Your life may seem great until you realize that you can no longer have passionate love with your partner anymore.

The love making tips here are for women who want to gain a greater understanding of male sexuality and help themselves and their partners, achieve greater sexual satisfaction.

*Take the lead :Most men feel under pressure to perform and don’t always like the responsibility!

Your partner wants to please you so let them know how - Most men won’t be offended, they will be delighted.

Many men think that what worked for their previous lover will work for you and of course this is not the case. Take control tell him what you like and what you don’t and guide him to please you.

*Communicate :It has been said that communication is the cornerstone of every successful relationship, and your sex life is no different. Ask her what she likes, and tell her what you like. Make sure to let her know that you care about her pleasure, and that you want her to enjoy herself. A caveat, however - it is often best to have this discussion outside the bedroom, to avoid any hurt feelings that may occur during the heat of the moment.

*Your Taste Don’t get the satisfaction you want from oral sex? Or. Your man is reluctant to do it? In many instances this is due to your attitude. Many men simply don’t give oral sex their full attention if they are worried about their partner not getting pleasure. When you are silent or self conscious he won’t give it his full attention. So relax and show you’re enjoying yourself! Relax and concentrate on the sensations. Moan, make eye contact, tell him what you like and run your hand over his hair and body to form an initiate connection. If he sees you are relaxed and enjoying it he will concentrate and you enjoy it more.

*Be Romantic: Taking the time and effort to "set the mood" can go a long way towards making your partner in a responsive mood, to better enjoy your efforts at pleasing her. Try taking a scented bath together, or having a candlelit dinner with some soft music. Sure, it may sound corny and cliched, but it's corny and cliched for a reason - it works.

*Premature Ejaculation :Premature ejaculation can be problem for most men at sometime in their lives and presents two problems: You still are hot and steamy and he feels self conscious! When this happens try the following: Wrap your thighs around his smash and grind into him. The Clitoris is only the tip of your main pleasure tool, the rest is located just under the labia and when you press it hard against him you are hitting this pleasure zone full on. This will allow you to continue to enjoy stimulation and have the psychological affect of making your man forget he came early! This is a confidence booster for him, as it shows your desire and there are no awkward silences to contend with. Premature ejaculation is caused by nervousness and your man being too eager to please.The above will help relax him, turn him on, make him less self conscious for next time and you still get satisfaction.

Passionate love making can be achieved with these tips. If these tips do not help you have more passionate love making, try something of your own. Don’t be afraid to ask around to family, friends and neighbors. They can be more helpful than you would think.