Flirting has become incredibly important in today’s society. In the 19th century, marriages and relationships were forced or arranged by family and there was no need for flirting. By the 1980’s everything changed. Not only was it 100 percent the responsibility of an individual to find relationships, but it became crucial that men know how to flirt with women.

Some men took on this knew challenge and started looking for flirting tips while some just took the examples from their parents and peers and used those to attract women. What did become clear in the 20th century was that men needed to know how to flirt with women, and that it’s much different than what the ordinary man thinks is flirting.

Most importantly, men are not born knowing how to flirt and it’s a subject that’s evolving and changing throughout time. Right now, I’m going to share the top 5 flirting tips that have been proven to work in the 20th century. Every man that applies these flirting tips will see better results with women.

Flirting is the first step in any relationship or interaction with a woman, and it cannot be skipped. In fact, it’s the most important step! It’s what starts the fire and creates the attraction. It is the step that defines a man’s success with women. So let’s jump into the top 5 flirting tips for men:

Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact

Physical interaction has a huge impact on a woman’s internal mechanics. She is very aware of touch and if it’s done in a non-threatening way she will be more drawn to you.

Once you initiate touch, make sure to let her touch you back to gauge her level of interest. If she responds to your touch, that’s a good indicator that she feels you are safe and that she is interested in you.

Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high – get her laughing

Your ending is the most important part in a conversation. It’s like when you take clay and mold it, but the only thing that really makes a long-term impact is what that clay ends off hardening into.

Let’s say you’re planning on meeting up with a girl. What you don’t want to do is end off a conversation with, "ya we will see you then, bye." You would be a lot more successful if you ended it off with, "Yeah just try not to embarrass me." or "Don’t forget to paint your toe nails." or "This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself." It creates a lot more excitement in her to want to meet up with you or just interact with you again.

Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify

Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don’t lose your value - that’s what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying.

You can qualify by asking questions like, "that’s a cool necklace, did you get it traveling?" Or if you want to be flirty and do what I call turning the tables you can say, "So are you going to ask me out or what?" or "You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?" Just remember to always give your approval whenever you’re interacting.

Flirting Tips #4 - Props

Props are awesome to use when you want women to come up to you and talk to you. They’re also perfect for a fallback option when you need something to talk about that you know works every time. Props give you something to always talk about and move forward with.

For instance, you could have a bandana that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out or just a shirt that says something funny. Then, when a woman asks about the bandana, you can say something like, "it was a rough time in my life, and I don’t think we’re good enough friends to talk about this yet" then you can go into some funny story or whatever you want. The most important thing about this flirting tip is that it breaks the ice and gets the conversation rolling.

Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting

Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through texting, text messaging, and sms text messages has became such a huge part of everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances, and it builds your confidence. Most importantly, it cuts out all the potentially negative attraction triggers women usually see, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing.

Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand above the rest and see a lot more women responding desirably to you.