It's not a subject that men like to talk about. Quite honestly, it's not something I feel particularly comfortable talking about myself, but it's important that men understand why they are having the problems that they're having and also understand that there are things that can be done about the problem. Hopefully, this article will provide you with some answers and some hope as well.

For starters, premature ejaculation, in spite of what a lot of men believe, is treatable. In most cases, it's not a physical problem such as if somebody has an injury and is physically incapable of performing. In most cases, the problem is actually emotional and learned at a very young age. To understand this, you need to understand most young boys as they reach puberty.

As a young man reaches puberty, the sensations that he is feeling are quite different and strong. Many feel the need to release their tensions and to do it quickly, especially because of the fear of being caught. Because of this, as they get older and get into a relationship, they are unable to control their reactions. It has become such a learned response that unlearning it takes a lot of time, and in a few cases, professional counseling.

Now, these cases while quite common are just the tip of the iceberg. In many cases, the problem actually stems from one encounter that ended out of the ordinary. After this encounter, the man fears that it's going to happen again, similar to when a man suffers from impotence. That fear feeds on itself and makes it so that each encounter becomes more and more difficult, until the only thing that can bring about normalcy is therapy, or at least realization of what has caused the problem and the ability to move on.

And this is just the beginning of the problem. Add to this the physical problems of oversensitivity and millions of men all over the world are wondering if the next time they are together with their partner if it's going to end in another disaster. And the fact that very few men can even talk about the problem just makes it worse. Have you actually discussed the problem with your partner?

Well, if you're interested, I've run across a great resource on this subject that I've reviewed in my signature. I think you will find it most helpful.

You don't have to suffer from premature ejaculation any longer.