Is My Boyfriend Getting Tired Of Me?

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  • Author Mike Tripp
  • Published April 10, 2009
  • Word count 1,319

Girls that are clingy need to get a life. They lack stability, they are insecure, and they are codependent, not good traits to have for a healthy relationship! You have to have other hobbies, and friends outside of the relationship. I guarantee you...if he isn’t tired of the clinginess already.....he will be!

Clingy can mean a lot of different things. I don’t see anything wrong with wanting to have others know your man is taken. In fact that is part of the function of promise rings and wedding rings. It shows there is a commitment to someone you love. I also don’t see anything wrong with wanting to spend lots of time together. That means you enjoy each other. I do agree that one needs friends outside the relationship and hobbies to share and to do solo. But hey if you can’t get enough of each other there is nothing wrong with that either. If this man truly loves you he will have no problem making it known he is taken. If you love him you will sacrifice your fears to build trust so that you don’t have to wonder if he is getting tired of you. You will be able to trust each other to communicate your thoughts and know that you will be able to work them out.

He use to text me nonstop and tell me he missed me and cute stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he won't even respond when I say good morning or goodnight. The only time he talks to me is if he wants me to come over or if he's mad at me.

Don't smother him too much. He might be bored or he might just want to have u as his sex bot, the conversations might be getting dull. If things don't spice up or communication doesn't open up more this might go bad fast. Talk to him and ask him what’s up with his lost of interest.

I hate to say it huny but I honestly think you might be hitting on one of two things..... Bye bye honeymoon period and you are getting more comfortable with each other and just don't need that extra attempt to make the other swoon, or you may have hit the nail on the head.

WELL FIRST LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DO WORK OUT TO SOME PEOPLE BUT NOT ALL & MOST OF THE TIME IT CAUSES CHEATING M0RE 0FTEN. SO I SUGGEST KEEPING HIM IN CHECK & SEE WHAT'S NEXT. NOT TO GET YOUR HOPES DOWN BUT I THINK HE'S PROBABLY TIRED OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT HE CANT REALLY SEE YOU SO HE THINKING "WHAT'S THE POINT OF ALL THIS?" YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? WELL YEAH BUT I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU. MOVE ON IF HE DOESNT DESERVE IT.

Just give him some space. If you've been dating for a year now, you should know him pretty well. I think deep down you must know what to do.

It sounds like he’s getting a little bored. Find something to occupy more of your time and he will miss having you around.

Which is a bigger slap in the face to an ex? Him seeing you sad after the break up or seeing you're fine?

Just give him some space. If you've been dating for a year now, you should know him pretty well. I think deep down you must know what to do.

it sounds like hes getting a little bored. find something to occupy more of your time and he will miss having you around.

We are both 17 and definitely ready for it. But I don't like my boyfriends behavior throughout the whole thing. We started out by just fooling around like we normally do and about five minutes into it my boyfriend asks if I want to have sex. After only five minutes of foreplay, I didn't really want sex yet and kinda wanted to just keep going with what we were doing and let it happen a little more... naturally. I actually did want sex, but just not like that. So when I seemed less than enthusiastic he started getting extremely defensive and asked questions like if he's doing something wrong. It actually turned into an actual argument and we sat in silence for a good 15 minutes. Then he suggested that it was time to go home and as he was getting up I pulled him back down and told him I was ready and we had sex.

When we were done he asked me how I felt about it and I said it was great. Then he said that it seemed like I was "just saying that". It's so frustrating! I reassured him that I liked it and eventually he settled down. Then we were cuddling and I sighed in happiness and he sits up and again starts accusing me of being unsatisfied. He thought I was sighing out of frustration or something.

He said he likes me a lot when I asked him how he felt about me, but he's not in love with me yet. Is this a bad sign?

People do not fall in love and then date. They date first, get to know the person and eventually find out if they fall in love or lose interest. There is no time limit on when a person is supposed to know if theyre in love. But you need to know if youre impatient and pushy about this you will drive him away.

Which is a bigger slap in the face to an ex? Him seeing you sad after the break up or seeing you're fine?

well sweetie i am kinda in the same situation my boyfriend says he loves me this and that but its like when i talk to him on the phone he never has anything to say he seems bored and tired of talking to me. ..so this is what i have done i have 2 boyfriends right now i am going to wich one seems to have more interest in me ...right now it seems like i have mor communication with the other boy then i do with the one i am having issues with ...get it.so what i would do is just what i did ..so eaven when he breaks up with you you have someone who wants you.no this is not cheating.its my way of haveing another guy on the side ...when one dumps you you h ave another guy to be with trust me it works.

why would u want to rush something as delicate as love? of course its not a bad sign. give it some time, and don't pressure him to say he loves you unless he really means it.

Which is a bigger slap in the face to an ex? Him seeing you sad after the break up or seeing you're fine?

I hate to say it babe but I honestly think you might be hitting on one of two things..... bye bye honeymoon period and you are getting more comfortable with each other and just don't need that extra attempt to make the other swoon, or you may have hit the nail on the head.

WELL FIRST LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DO WORK OUT TO SOME PEOPLE BUT NOT ALL & MOST OF THE TIME IT CAUSES CHEATING M0RE 0FTEN. SO I SUGGEST TO KEEP HIM IN CHECK & SEE WHAT'S NEXT. NOT TO GET YOUR HOPES DOWN BUT I THINK HE'S PROBABLY TIRED OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT HE CANT REALLY SEE YOU SO HE THINKING "WHAT'S THE POINT OF ALL THIS?" MOVE ON IF HE DOESNT DESERVE IT.

Just give him some space. If you've been dating for a year now, you should know him pretty well. I think deep down you must know what to do.

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Hannah J
Hannah J · 8 years ago
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