If you just want to have fun and don't care whether you'll see the guy again, I would say go for it. The chance is that you probably won't see this guy again. But if you really like a guy and want him for keeps, there's one thing you absolutely have to do: Make Him Wait for Sex.

An article in Cosmopolitan recently included some interviews they conducted with real men. The majority of these men have confessed that when girls have sex with them too soon, it draws a big question mark in their heads. He wonders, does she do this a lot? Am I really special for her?

If you are really into a guy, these question marks are the last things you want to put in his head. If anything, you want him to only associate cute images and feelings of love with you. Not BIG question marks!

This strategy has worked in the past and still works at present. Here are two REAL benefits for you, if you make a guy wait for sex:

• Benefit #1: You immediately separate the players from the real deals.

A player will NEVER hang around for long, if he thinks that he can't get what he wants fast. You can test a guy's true intentions towards you by delaying, delaying, and delaying sex. The true prince who wants a monogamous, committed relationship with you will be fine with waiting. But the player will rarely last for more than a few weeks before he disappears and looks for an easier target.

• Benefit #2: You give the guy time to bond with you emotionally. Look back at your life and think about the committed relationships you've had. Is there a very strong emotional bond between you two? Did you two have a lot in common, outside the bedroom? Yup. Emotional bonding is sooooo important if you want a guy to fall for you and start to seriously consider a future with you. By delaying sex, you give more room for emotional bonding. It really works!