Dating and Positive Flirting

Social IssuesDating

  • Author Francis K. Githinji
  • Published May 29, 2009
  • Word count 574

Dating without flirting is like an ocean without salty water. Flirting is a healthy way of growing your relationship. The right way to keep her or him appreciating you everyday and whether she/he is the right person can easily be ascertained through directing a wedge into her systems. Picking the momentum and coming out with her own will be a sure sign there is something between you too. Flirting in dating is meaningful, don’t ignore it. It is that easy to decipher the signs of positive flirting that has meaning, it calls for your intellect and grey matter.

The signs depicting the cupid’s arrows at work are rife across the genders, and each one of them is very important to them. Check whether your name is appearing frequently in the conversation, if it does then you can rest assured that cupid is burning his midnight oil. Don’t forget to check the teeth; in case they are occasionally flashing and if the lips appear drawn in that clear happy line when you happen to be around (smiling), then your flirting is working. Leaning towards you as they sit or stand and being very close during your dating and flirting episodes means that flirting is working great for you.

The different genders differ much in the way they flirt and in flirting gestures. Females are quite subtle in sending these signals. Check your antenna and if it is immaculate and sensitive, and if the grey cells are fresh and recharged to work through out the night, then you will easily understand and get the signs, otherwise, you can go back to the drawing board.

The most strong and interesting sign that will make you understand that he/she is trying to flirt with you is touching your knees and/or arms quite often. It is mostly common with men but females in dating modes also exude the same. The action might come out not purposeful or unintentional; but you can construe this as the truest sign of positive flirting. Prior to your response, be aware and don’t rush into responding.

Flirting is a sign that he/she loves you, and if you can know whether you mean anything in his/her life, then you can rest assured that there will always be flirting as long as you have a dating relationship. Look at the way he flexes his muscles and depicts his masculinity. He might be trying to sell his body and whatever it comes aboard with to you.

The men are the most affected in the flirting and love game, and if they like you their actions will always suggest otherwise, and if you don’t score highly in their scheme metrics, flirting will be absent like the rays of the sun during the night.

Knowing whether he likes you is very easy. The man might be one of those thunderous people whose voice is always high most of the time, but when he is talking to you his voice is lowered and always enquiring about what you approve and disapprove in your life. The girl you are dating will always have her eyes trained upon you if she loves you, mostly when you are not watching her. Every time you look at her the eyes will always shift to some other place. Flirting will then follow and even if you don’t start it, she will jump start it.

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