A Parent's Guide to Internet Controls
Computers & Technology → Site Security
- Author Polly Schlafhauser
- Published September 19, 2005
- Word count 1,207
Well, it started. I now have a daughter who has a computer in her
room. Still no TV, just a computer…It all started when we
decided to purchase a new computer for ourselves and were
subsequently faced with the dilemma of what and where to put our old
computer. After a lot of discussion and pleading from our eight
year old we decided to let her put the computer in her room. She
has been fascinated with computers since the age of 1 ½ and
regularly corresponds via email with her cousins, aunts, and
uncles. Once we got the computer set up in her room complete with
wireless internet access, we had to come to some decisions about how
to keep track of and monitor what she was doing on-line. It took
me one hour of research to realize how complicated it was going to
be and a few more weeks of research to figure out what to do. So,
here is our solution. What's yours?
The first point I want to make is there are no fail safe methods of
protecting your children from every "undesirable" on the web.
All options have their shortcomings and still require parental
monitoring to ensure little eyes aren't seeing more than they
should. Secondly, as parents we have a lot of choices in how we go
about protecting our kids. Choices range from complete blocking to
only establishing household rules. Your ultimate choice will
probably most depend on the age of your child and what you want as a
parent. Lastly, not only do we have to worry about what our kids
see when they "surf" the web, but we also have to worry about
instant messaging and chat rooms. It's a lot to take in, but
here we go.
Parental Control Options
Internet Service Providers (ISP's)
This is where you should start. Many ISP's today offer parents a
lot of choices for parental control. Many allow some type of
blocking and filtering of inappropriate websites and emails. AOL by
far has the best reputation for state of the art parental controls,
but many other ISP's are beginning to step up their efforts and
also offer options for parents.
Web Browsers
Both Internet Explorer and Netscape have built in, but limited
controls for parents to use. In Internet Explorer parents can set
limits by using their own criteria, criteria established by the
Recreational Software Advisory Council (RSACi) and SafeSurf, or the
rating system of another organization they trust. It is important
to note that both RSACi and SafeSurf rely on website owners to
voluntarily (currently there are not laws requiring them to do so)
rate their site, something that many choose not to do (both good and
bad sites) and since the web browsers automatically block anything
not rated it makes getting around on the web without a lot
of "blocks" very difficult. Netscape Navigator also sets
limits based on the criteria established by RSACi and SafeSurf, but
to the best of my knowledge do not allow parents to set their own
criteria or use the criteria of a rating agency other than the two
mentioned.
Blocking/Monitoring/Filtering Software
By installing blocking/monitoring/filtering software on your
computer you can control what your children see and do on the
internet as well as monitor what they are doing when you aren't
around. Most software packages today offer the capability to do
all three functions as well as offer protections for instant
messaging and chat rooms.
Blocking software allows the parents to block "bad" sites
from reaching their kids and many also allow parents to designate
"good" sites and only grant access to sites on the "good" sites
list. Software packages with blocking capabilities
usually have a list of predetermined "bad" sites and may
charge a monthly service fee to get the updated lists. If you go
this route, be sure to pick a package that also gives you the
ability to add to or customize the "bad" site list. There is
also blocking software that prevents children from sharing personal
information (address,phone number)with someone over the internet.
This can be helpful when your children start using chat rooms to
protect them from sharing personal information with online
predators.
Filtering software works off of a list of keywords (i.e. sex) to
block sites. Because it is very difficult for even the best
software programs to keep up with the multitude of sites being added
everyday, filtering works as a backup to the blocking function to
prevent any "bad" sights sneaking through to the kids. The
keywords are pre-set in the software and like the blocking option be
sure to choose a software package that allows parents to customize
the keyword list.
Monitoring and tracking software is a tool that allows parents to
keep track of everything the kids are doing on line including
reading emails, instant messages, seeing which websites have been
visited, and how long the kids have been on-line. Some software
packages even allow parents to control at which times of day and for
how long kids can be on the computer. This can be helpful for
parents who work outside the home and whose kids are home alone
after school. It is important to note that these monitoring and
tracking tools (if purchased in a stand alone package) don't
prevent kids from visiting certain sites, they just tell parents
where they have been and for how long.
Kid Search Engines
Also available to parents are search engines designed specifically
for kids. The search engines only access "safe" websites and
materials. These search engines are okay, but only until your kids
learn how to type in a new address in the address bar. There is
nothing built into these search engines to prevent them from doing
this.
Kid Browsers
Kid browsers are web browsers designed for children to use in place
of Internet Explorer or Netscape Navigator. They are very kid
friendly and filter out unacceptable sites. A couple of good ones I
have found are the Children's Internet and KidRocket.org.
Children's Internet charges $9.95 per month whereas KidRocket.org
though more limited is available through a donation of your choice.
Kid browsers are geared more toward younger kids (ages 3 – 10)
and older kids may find this type of browsers "babyish".
Resources for Parents
You should visit CommonSenseMedia.org. They are an independent
organization that reviews and rates websites, TV shows, video games,
movies, books, and songs for appropriateness for kids. They also
allow parents and kids to provide reviews as well. It is a good
resource if you want to hear what other people have to say about a
website your child is visiting.
Our Solution
After all my research, we have decided that for now to just set up a
few rules and monitor her on-line activities ourselves by reviewing
the history in her browser address bar and checking the emails she
receives and sends. As she gets older and her web surfing and
internet activities (instant messaging and chat rooms) more
sophisticated, we will have to consider more, but for now we think
this is enough.
For additional information on specific software recommendations and
ISP controls, visit us at
www.familieswithpurpose.com/internetcontrols.html
Polly Schlafhauser is Founder and President of Families with
Purpose, a website dedicated to helping busy families enhance their
family life. To subscribe to their FREE newsletter or to learn
about more great family activities, visit their website at
www.familieswithpurpose.com.
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