Mastering Your Mind Power: Keep Your Own Counsel
Self-Improvement → Motivational
- Author Harold L Lowe
- Published June 7, 2009
- Word count 669
Have you ever noticed that the people with whom you interact think they know more than you know about nearly every subject, including what you need to do to attract more of what you desire? For every action you announce you are planning to take to improve your life outcomes, someone (if not all) of the people in your inner circle will quickly tell you what a waste of your time it is to do such a thing.
He, she, or they will then proceed to offer you evidence from (his, her, their) many past experiences to support the position that you would be much better off by staying the course of your life than your attempting to move in a different direction. What is really happening is OTHER PEOPLE are giving YOU advice, suggestions and directions through THEIR self image filters (their beliefs, doubts, and fears) as to what YOU should and should not do with YOUR LIFE!
With ADVICE and COUNSEL like that, from people that are your family, friends, and significant others, it will not be long before you begin to doubt that you can have better outcomes in your life. You will likely begin to think that maybe it is just not meant to be that you should experience and enjoy your desires.
I sincerely believe that those people in your environment do not attempt to counsel you to harm you. They think you are simply not going obtain your desires. They are truly fearful for you; fearful of the hurt and disappointment they fear you will suffer. They want to spare you the pain and misery. They have seen much more of it in their lives and the lives of others than they have seen of the joy, happiness, and achievement that is possible to experience. They just can not bring themselves to tell you that directly.
Here is what I implore you to remember. YOU ARE NOT THOSE PEOPLE, no matter how well meaning they are. YOU ARE YOU. No one can see what is in your mind but you. No none truly knows what makes you happy but you. No one can ever really know your desires and dreams but you. No one knows what your self image filters presents to you as reality.
I do not know how to say this diplomatically, so I will say it like this. If you truly wish to live more the life you desire for your remaining days on this planet, there are people in you life that you will have to spend less time with. There are some people you are going to have to have to cease interactions with period!
If you are not already doing so, you should begin to keep you desires and any and all plans related to your desires strictly to yourself. Think about this for a moment: If people in your environment do not have what you desire, they almost assuredly can not advise and counsel you how to get it! If you feel you just have to share your desires with someone, start a written or audio diary.
For now, continue to work on mastering your mind power. There will come a time when you can tell the whole world about your desires, after you have attained or accomplished them. You can then feel free to share what steps you took to get there (if you are asked). Keep in mind that advice unsolicited is advice unheeded. YOU owe it to YOURSELF to LIVE YOUR DREAM and to have the FREEDOM to do what YOU want to do when YOU want to do it.
This I know for sure. You can claim or re-claim control of your own mind power. You are the most miraculous of all living beings on earth. You are the owner of a mind that is so stupendous, that as you truly begin mastering your mind power and consciously using it, there is no dream that you can dream that you cannot achieve.
Harold L Lowe retired at age 62 when his six-figure income position was eliminated. He now wishes to share some of what he has learned since then and some of his experiences as well through articles. He is now studying The New Think And Grow Rich with the author, Ted Ciuba, a founding member of the World Internet Summit. To Claim A FREE Copy Of The Book That Inspired The Movie/DVD/Book, The Secret, Go To: Power Of The Mind
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