Most men are unsure, how to initiate the first kiss. Find out if the girl is ready to be kissed by you before you go for that first kiss.

There are few tests you can use to find out if she is ready to establish a romantic and sexual relationship with you. Use the following as tests to find out is she is ready to be kissed:

1. Run your fingers through the hair of this girl and establish an eye contact.

2. Hold her hands and gently squeeze them.

3. Brush her arm.

If she responds positively to two of the three then she is ready to be kissed. Don’t worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn’t brush your arm. She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk away from you.

At this point take a step towards her or slowly pull her towards you. Then look into her eyes, slowly lean forward and gently kiss her on the lips. It is always better to give her a quick peck first then go for a longer kiss.

There is no need to pull back after you kiss her the first time. You could stay in the kiss position, take a look in her eyes and go for the long kiss.

It is possible that the girl may pull back when you go for the kiss even if she complied to all you tests. Don’t assume she does not like you or don’t want you to kiss her because she pulled back.

It just means that she did not see the kiss coming. She was a little surprised when you went for the kiss. It very could be bad timing or not relaying her your intentions strong enough before going for the kiss.

Go for the kiss right after the above three tests. It will reduce the chances of girl pulling back.

If the girl pulls back but does not protest or vocalize her objection to your kiss then it is a good sign. If she does not walk away and continue to participate in the conversation then you can assume she was not ready for the kiss earlier.

Test her attraction again buy running the three tests of touching her.

If she still does not object to most of the tests than you can definitely go for the kiss again. You will be able to kiss her this time because she will be prepared and expecting it now.

Here are few extra tips:

• Have a good breadth before you go for the kiss. Use some mint or breath freshener few minutes before the kiss.

• Don’t freak the girl out by saying "I love you" right after the kiss. It is too soon to say those words.

• Shave if you plan to go for a kiss.

• Try to kiss her in private and not in front of 50 people when you kiss her for the first time.

• Don’t get upset if she rejects you. Don’t try to convince her or argue with her.

• You could make the kiss more romantic by holding her hands or face when you kiss her. You could also hold her on her waist or whisper in a girl’s ears.

• It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night.

• Don’t get all awkward after you kiss hey. Don’t go all sexual either unless you are absolutely sure that she would be ok with it. You do not want to make things awkward or ruin the moment by coming across as uncomfortable or desperate.