You want to get started talking dirty to your man, but you aren't sure where to start? Talking dirty can be easier than you may imagine. Many couples use erotic talk to turn each other on. Talking dirty is actually very healthy, and it can really take a love letter to a whole new level. Hopefully this guide can help you get started using dirty talk with your man.

Ask him what he wants! If he's not very forthcoming or seems a little reluctant, take some initiative and start to tell him what you like and how what he does makes you feel. The phrase "How does that feel baby" will always get a response; keep the momentum going because before he knows it he will have joined in the conversation.

Often times innocent comments work just as well. Telling your man he has a gentle touch or you love his whole body massages is enough to drive your man wild and will do the trick. Everyone needs to be complimented and praised now and then and compliments and praise in the bedroom are not by any means exempt from this rule!

Most couples get caught up in sex and sometimes lose track of their common sense and say stupid things, which may get you a very funny look or kill the mood all together. The last thing you ever want to say is "Are you done yet" or "You're done already" as you can see these are not exactly compliments.

There is one thing to remember with talking dirty: you must mix it up. Saying the same things time after time can become rather boring and predictable. So by expanding your dirty vocabulary you and your partner will never know what to expect from each other. This is how you keep the dirty talking excitement alive time after time, regardless of how often you talk dirty.

You may have noticed that there is a hint of an unwritten rule that talking dirty is not something that good girls are supposed to do. You may have been raised with that mind frame, and a lot of women were, but don't let that get to you. The thing is, most men absolutely love it when their partner has some saucy things to say in bed.

First off, abandon all negative thoughts about talking dirty that you may have picked up during your life. There's nothing wrong with stoking your man's flame, and talking dirty is just another weapon in your arsenal. That's where most feelings of embarrassment or uneasiness come from. We're often led to believe that good girls just don't let certain words come out of their mouths. Leave your good girl image on the back burner for now (unless that's what turns your man on), and try on being a bad girl for a moment.

If you're ready to begin naughty talking to your man, the first thing you should do is practice. Yes, it can be a little awkward talking dirty to yourself in the bathroom mirror, but it's also kind of exciting. While you're practicing getting comfortable with dirty talk, imagine that your man is right in front of you. Imagine him to be completely without judgment and completely turned on by the dirty things you are saying to him. This will help you build confidence and will loosen your tongue a bit.