Lots of people wonder how they can talk dirty with their partners. One of the biggest problems we come across is the fact that they do not know what to say and they do not know what to talk about to their lover.

It seems that people are starting to look at this whole talking dirty scenario as being part of a dialogue or stand up performance that they have to remember.

There is nothing out there that is further from the truth than that.

What is it with talking dirty? What is behind it? When you talk dirty, you are doing something that is not only private, but it is intimate and naughty as well. It is something that you and your lover share – something special.

Talking dirty is loved by many couples. Why? It gives them the opportunity to break all of the rules, to get past those certain boundaries and restrictions. By talking dirty, you will finally be able to learn what is on your loved ones mind. Your lover will finally get to hear what your fantasies are.

You will be able to express all of your inner thoughts that you have been keeping secret to your partner. You should not force things out or make things seem unreal. When it seems like you are reading a dialogue, it is a big turn off. The things you are saying to your partner when you are talking dirty should be something that comes naturally; something from your heart.

You’re in a predicament and you are not able to think of what to say? If so, then pay attention to the following:

1. Close your eyes. Now, imagine that you and your partner are not where you are right now. Imagine you are in a different place. Perhaps, out for a walk by the river.

2. At this moment, what would you like your partner to do to you? Would you like for him or her to touch you? How would you like them to do it? Would this make you feel aroused if they put your hands on you? If your partner did that, what would you want to do in return? Would you whisper in their ear? Caress them?

People get worried when they are talking dirty and do not know what to say. They do not want to say something that is silly. When you are imagining what we just told you about above, just talk it out and tell your partner these things. They won’t even realize you are in a trance as you’re searching for these words, they will just think you are really turned on. When you talk dirty, just put your desires, needs and wants into your language and speak them!