Dirty talking is something many men will love their women to do. If you put in a little effort into becoming a good dirty talker, you will find that you can completely renew your relationship in no time.

Dirty talking is something that is simple to do. Though it may seem intimidating at first thought, it is a way of multiplying the pleasure of your sex life with very little investment.

Just like dirty talking can enhance the pleasure of sex, the mood and the ambience you set can enhance the pleasure of dirty talking itself.

So, what are the things you can do to set the mood to launch yourself onto an enjoyable ride?

Start Out Right:

• Make sure you are in the mood before you start dirty talking for the first time. If you are uncomfortable with what you are doing, you will sound forced and stilted. Practice when you are alone. If you watch yourself in a mirror, you will be able to see just how effective you are. You could also try erotic books or pictures to get you into the mood as well as learn a few tips.

• One very important thing is to be aware of your partner’s preferences. If possible, ask right out. If you are not sure, start very gently with non verbal gasps and moans to indicate your pleasure. Go on to sexy compliments and sentences like "Mmmm that feels so good. Do it again!"

• Watch your partner’s reactions. Once you have stepped over the initial speed breakers and eased yourself into it, get comfortable with what you are saying. Watch for the effects your words have. Even if he is silent, you can still judge how he is taking it by his body language. If you find that he is getting excited, step up the pace.

Once You Know You Are On The Right Track, Step It Up!

• If you see your partner getting excited by your dirty talk, then you know he likes it. Now it’s time to figure out how to make the most of it. Get more explicit when you tell him what you want him to do to you. Tell him in no uncertain words about what you like to do with him.

• Get your partner involved in the action. Ask him if he likes what you are doing, or if he wants more… Get him to start talking without even thinking about it. Then you can start asking him to describe to you his desires in greater detail.

• Be open minded enough to be able to laugh off goof ups and never humiliate each other. Discuss any turn offs before hand to avoid disaster.

• Start introducing dirtier words and phrases as you gain more confidence. Use milder ones to tease and the cruder ones for when the action is the hottest. You will also give him permission to expand his boundaries when he knows what is ok with you.

This simple plan is sure to get you successfully started on dirty talking! As you go on and find yourself becoming more and more confident, you will find yourself becoming more inventive and adventurous in your quest to enhance the power of dirty talking.