Learn the effects of your flirt

If you are in tandem with your flirting, you can easily know what makes you flirt successful by understanding what the effect. There are women who might send you some signals signifying very high signs of flirting yet what is in their mind is the idea of friendship. There are others who send you overt flirt signs since attention is what they seek. Believe it, with such overt flirting, they can only succeed. The most unfortunate thing is that there will be a lot of attention that will be unwanted.

You can overturn this quite easily. Speak to your best friends and practice with them by letting them offer an honest view and feedback about the way you flirt. You can also practice on the mirror. Once you have understood the kind of effect you throw to the surrounding, you will learn to make the right changes.

Forget the Lines

There are people who believe there are chat up lines in flirting. They have the idea that one can learn some lines that will be unlocking things to their favor. If there is any, it will never do you any good, since there is absolutely no ready flirt line. The flirt is more of a genuine statement of the kinds of things happening at the moment. What you should know perhaps is that simple opening lines will always endear you to a person and serve as the key you are looking for.

If you look closely at the person you want to flirt with, you will notice some of their positive points, and you will come up with some successful and natural lines that will change the course of your flirting. An easy and an all time successful gambit when you cannot think of anything to say is saying hello and smiling the best you can, and then, just like that, walk away with a single glance back. You will notice how it works wonders.

Be Approachable

Perhaps you think you have failed in your flirt since you make yourself so unapproachable. If you are in a group of people, perhaps friends, try as much as you can to separate yourself occasionally. It is the thought of being turned down that scares many guys from approaching you. You should always look friendly enough for anybody to draw closer to you. Sitting and having the misdemeanor of a king or queen will through many suitors from your path. Try to have a positive air about you, to make people have a reason to believe they can at least say hello.

You should make sure you are giving out a negative signal that you are not approachable. You must at least know what you are giving off, so that you don’t unconsciously ruin your chances for a true successful flirt. Understanding yourself and the different things you have that make you approachable from posture or smile should be clear to you.