Must You Call Him?

Social IssuesDating

  • Author Chris J Roberts
  • Published November 11, 2009
  • Word count 492

Dating is one of the most interesting entertainments, which has all the potential for a healthy and long lasting relationship. Men and women come together and decide to meet and after their first date their relationship continues either as friends or lovers for life. Sometimes they don’t find any consistent chemistry between the two and decide to break up after the first date. What if a man and woman see each other too often for say a month or so and suddenly the man stops calling or doesn’t care much to return your calls? Does it mean he lost interest in you suddenly or is he held up in his work or office? In such a case what will you do? Must you call him?

Wait patiently:

Many women keep on calling the man even though the situation might be a little fishy. One or two days he might be really busy but then not as busy to ignore or call back just for a second to say a HI. If he isn’t returning your calls say for more than a week it is time to take stock. Think of your last meeting and ponder on the events that might have lead to this decision of your man. If there isn’t any then the best advice is to wait for his call or message. There are chances that he might have lost interest in you or probably found some one more interesting than you. So if you have any emotional attachment or a soft corner for the guy it is time to wipe it dry. Because you never know whether you will be seeing him again or not, so it is best to face the reality and move on.

There is a huge difference between how men and women perceive phone calls. Women take it very personally and expect the man they are interested in to call more often. But for men it is just a casual phone call and they don’t give so much importance even if you don’t call them all week. So understand the situation and try to keep calm and wait patiently. That is the best thing to do if you haven’t yet received a call from him for more than a week.

Stop searching for him at the wrong places:

Many women would go the places where they had met previously just to know if he is around. That is the most foolish thing to do in this situation. Many will even start enquiring about him to his friends and associates and will be desperate to get him again. There is no grave mistake than this. Because remember that you are the last person to know what happened in his life and hence you will be mocked at and made a fool of by everyone around you. So stop searching and start thinking about the question, "must you call him?"

Are you wasting all your life on a guy who says he'd call you but never calls back? So, how do you know whether he will call you and most importantly when? Learn more about rules and strategies on should I call?. Also you can get all your answers by visiting Why Doesn't He Call

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