The stuff written about the size of the male penis could fill up all the libraries of the world, and then some more. Nothing – repeat, nothing – has been such an issue of male concern as the size of the penis. As a result, there have been several articles, periodicals, reports, books, etc. written about it. Most of these genuinely speak about the problems pertaining to penile sizes. But, sorry to say, a vast number of these articles help in perpetrating myths about the size of penis. We find such myths abounding in advertisements that sell products for increasing penis sizes. This article strives in a realistic and frank manner about penis sizes and also tries to remove some of the myths that center around the issue.

First and foremost, it is necessary to remember that there is nothing such as ‘the perfect penis’. When one looks at well-hung porn stars, there is bound to be a feeling of embarrassment about one’s own penis. That is natural, but you should remember that most of those porn stars are paid for their penis sizes. So they pump themselves up with steroids – something that is quite harmful to do – or maybe the digital camera does the trick.

Most men have penis sizes between 5½ to 7½ inches. So, if your penis lies in this range; there is nothing to be worried about. Another thing is that this penis size is an average all over the world. There is nothing supporting the fact that African penises are bigger and Asian penises are smaller. Men of all penis sizes are found all over the world.

Even if your penis is smaller than the size mentioned above, there is no need to be disheartened. A penis that is as small as 4 inches is enough to satisfy a woman. In the vagina, only the first few inches are sexually receptive. A penis of any size above four inches is enough to provide this stimulation. Also the clitoris – the prime spot of all female sexual stimulation – is placed at the outer end of the vagina, just below the vulva. Penises of all sizes can easily rub the clitoris if inserted properly. Thus, there is no need to worry about satisfying your woman on account of the size of your penis.

Many women, when asked, said that it is the girth of the man’s penis that matters to them and not the length. This may be true, as a fatter penis can better rub the outer rim of the vagina, and thus provide with more friction. A longer but thin penis would penetrate inside better, but there would be no rubbing of the sides, which is all the more important when it comes to providing the woman with satisfaction. Women are of the opinion that a longer penis is actually cumbersome for all kinds of penetrative sex, and in fact it is even painful to both the partners.

But again, there is no specified girth for the penis. Some statistics have revealed that a penis with a girth of nearing six inches should do the trick, though a smaller size is also very much efficient. Actually this depends very much on the width of the vagina itself. Most women have vaginas that are between 2 to 2½ inches in width.

Hence a penis of anywhere about 4 inches in girth should be enough to satisfy a woman adequately.

Now we come to the most important part of this discussion. If the size of the penis does not biologically matter, and if women do not see much difference between a large and a not-so-large penis, then where does the argument lie? If you follow it closely, you will see that the size of the penis is most of all a male issue. It is the man who has the desire of having a big penis, and not necessarily the woman. Every many wants to look better-endowed in the locker rooms and in public showers. It is a kind of an ego-boost for a man to realize that he his member overshadows the members of his peers. That is where the whole issue begins from.

Thus, the need of a big penis is not biological; it is psychological. When a male happens to see a penis that is bigger than his, he might go, ‘Oh! What I would do to get a penis like his!’ And definitely the man may resort to several methods to gain a few millimeters on his penis.

For the woman, perhaps, a bigger penis is just a bigger toy and nothing more. It might provide her with some more pleasure during foreplay and may be she can experiment more with it during oral sex; but there’s nothing more than that.

However, the expression on a woman’s face when she sees a well-hung man is all that is needed to bolster the man’s confidence about his own machismo.

It must be remembered that it is the sperm count and not the size of the penis that matters. You will find it asked often in all the magazine columns that, ‘I have a … inch penis, and I think it is too small. Will I be able to father children?’ There is nothing that penis size can do to your capacity of fathering children. If the sperm are deposited even on the outer rim of the vagina, they are equipped with flagella to swim their way up to the woman’s egg cells. So, no need to worry.

You need to worry only if you have an extremely small penis, called as a micropenis, which is disproportionately small to the rest of your genitals. Micropenises are below 1 inch in size, and they are caused due to some congenital conditions. There are surgical methods to get this problem treated.

So, if you have a fairly big enough penis, go ahead and feel confident about the world. Give your woman the love and affection that is more important. If your love is adequate, the size of the penis wouldn’t matter in any way.