How to Deal with Rejection from Women

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  • Author Rion Williams
  • Published March 22, 2006
  • Word count 1,717

Are women actually interested in you when they first see

you? Or is it that they are interested in what they are

seeing as a reflection of their own ideals and expectations?

And what about when women reject you or don't even give you

a chance? Has this hurt you before even though other guys

will tell you not to take it personally or to just 'keep on

approaching and you'll get over it'?

Well I'm going to help you deal with this 'rejection' and

set it more straight right now (for free).

What's really going on are many different things and on

different levels.

I want you to be able to differentiate a woman's response to

you so that you can understand it so that it doesn't hurt

you or even affect you but rather that you can learn what

hasn't been working and take advantage of what does work.

When a woman sees you for the first time, she is

extrapolating every little detail about you to determine

whether you might be a fit for her.

These usually accurate judgments she is making off of the

smallest details about you will help protect her or open you

up to having a chance with her.

In the future I will get deeply into getting yourself to the

point where you are communicating that you are everything

she could want even if you don't have the best looks or

money, age, etc.

But for now, this data that she is judging off of you is

either working for you or against you. You may have had

women blow you off or flat out reject you after you

approached and started talking or they never even gave you a

chance before you approached.

Is this something you should take personally?

I don't want to give you a shallow answer, I want to give

you the MEANING behind it; the schematics and reasoning so

bear with me and it will be worth it.

Does a woman even know you when they she first sees you?

Then how can you possibly accept any kind of rejection?

Just because you approached her and she rejected you does

not mean that you have a low character or are undesirable.

Does it?

Here's the bad news; some of the readers on this list may

actually have a low character and the women ARE judging

accurately (albeit without knowing more b/c they feel they

don't need or want to find out more).

This can all be changed so that any man can not only more

accurately portray more of what she is attracted to but

actually BE that man in congruity.

The primary key is for him to get in touch with his own

natural/ universal character and stop relying so much on

his limited independent or social character.

The rest of the guys probably do have a higher independent

or social character but just aren't being themselves when

they approach a woman. They're using a pick-up persona or

player front or they're just being a nice guy (overly nice

and not their true self).

Otherwise they're just not in touch with their

natural/universal character in order to spark attraction

anyways.

Too many guys these days (and it's being taught) are

focusing on the social and even independent (I'm a nice guy)

parts of their character when it comes to attracting women.

This sets a man up for rejection because these two areas are

the least important and are what women respond to the least

when it comes to attraction and her wanting you; it's just really

hard to see through it when women have become the rulers of

the social 'matrix'.

Natural order is flipped around in our social behaviour patterns

so you just have to see through all of the social influence and

deal with her biology; the one thing that doesn't change and is

what is the essence of what she desires that (healthy) men

would realize.

So if you are focusing on your social 'pick up game' you're

going to have to get real good at it and then because of

your high character, the charts work in reverse so that

eventually she may feel a spark of attraction. In other

words:

You have to talk her into it and let her realize that you

are a man of high character.

This takes longer because you started on the wrong end of

the character continuum in your communication and portrayal

of yourself to her.

Like I said it also sets you up for failure because you have

to get all of the words just right and her temperance is

wavering.

Hopefully this will help you understand why men are

rejected more and perhaps yourself in the past sometimes.

Understanding it is key to putting it in it's place and then

changing to do the more effective things.

When you are a man of high natural/universal character and

communicate this with your body language (often enough

alone), the universal/natural part of the woman knows to

respond to you and you don't have to use words.

She is prewired to know how to respond and be attracted to a

man that has a strong connection to his universal/natural

(which used to be almost all men but people were more

localized then).

Today, very few men are in full touch with this and those

that are, are the guys that are scoring the most with women.

It's that simple.

When you can get in touch with the natural/universal power

that is greater than you (and is your inheritance) you can have

that power to create attraction (naturally) and make it a part of

your own character...add it to your game and it will make ALL

the difference.

You won't even have to deal with rejection anymore because

you'll be able to read and communicate with women on the

nonverbal level (the unspoken), that which was formerly

invisible.

So back to the rejection issue...when a woman sees you and

you aren't effectively communicating that you are a man of high

character (either incongruently or because you just aren't

there yet), she most likely won't give you a chance.

The key is to understand where you are on the character

continuum.

If you ARE a great (nice) guy, then remember that she is

just judging her initial impression of you. You may have a

high independent character and be a great guy so just

separate that from the fact that you were currently LOW on

the natural/ universal part of your character and that is

the part she was disapproving of, not YOU.

So don't take it personally. When you do develop a high

character across the charts not only will you never have to

deal with rejection again but when you play it by certain

rules (your rules) SHE will be the one who is rejected or

disqualifying herself to you and you will have the power by

far.

You will always have the last word.

All you really have to have even if you have a low

independent and social character/status is a strong

connection to your natural ability (esp. if you aren't good

looking, poor or are much older).

So if you've been focusing on the social character and using

techniques and pick-up lines to develop your character to be

able to pick a woman up...just consider working on your

natural/ universal character instead; it's what matters so

much that a woman will HELP you pick her up by giving the

right signals when you do have a high character. You won't

even need pick up lines then.

In fact it's not until recently that we actually had pick up

lines or a need to study this. You just have to

differentiate the forced reality from the natural, timeless

reality of attraction and female response and separate out

all of what doesn't matter (such as her fickle independent

character when it comes to attraction and don't deal with

it).

Prevent rejection and isolate the possibility of it by

understanding the model magnet system and charts. She

isn't rejecting you, she's just placing a perception onto you

and judging you initially to see if you meet her expectational

response/ideal.

I like to say;

She can't sleep with a man of low (m.m.) character just as

much as you can't sleep with an ugly, fat chick.

And if you've taken one for the home team, that's about as

often as she slept with a man of low character (despite his

looks).

So make sure that you not only communicate the right things

but BE the man of the highest character that you can.

It's more important than your social character/status or

your own inner game and personality, it's about your

connection to the universal power of masculinity and secure

inner strength.

The feminine energy in her will rule over her fickle

independent behavior and her body just may not be able to

resist. This can all happen within a few seconds of her

seeing you.

At this point women will be approaching you like crazy and

throwing out all kinds of signs because this kind of man who

is in touch is so rare these days. The works already cut

out for you.

What would it be worth for you to turn the tables, never get

rejected and live that kind of lifestyle with women no

MATTER your looks, age, income or social status?

It's not a trick. It's real. And it's every man's

inheritance but he has to embrace and accept it. I am the

messenger because this power is greater than the greatest of

any man in history's own independent character.

You don't have to be a superstar pick up character, you just

have to be a man of (natural) character and you'll be able

to catch women's interest just by walking in the room.

And when you're already spurring attraction in her and she

can trust you by your body language, there's less of a

chance you'll get rejected anyways.

And if you're living in a dominant reality where she is attracted

to you and wants to be plus take the natural approach you can

prevent rejection entirely.

Rion Williams is the celebrated author of 'Mens Guide

to Women' and is the first person to quantify and put

in writing 'what women want'. His free newsletter and

downloadable attraction philosophy eBook can be found

at http://www.modelmagnet.com

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Dan
Dan · 17 years ago
Reading this drivel was an absolute waste of time.