Most of us love sex and have secret sexual desires. We think much more of the sex than we talk about it. Sexuality is the base of our personal relationships and is an important consideration when we start a family. But even in a long term relationship or in a family regularly returns the need of new sexual experiences. In a lucky case we can fulfill these desires with our existing partner, but in most of the cases our fantasy needs something new, something else. So with or without our partner we try to follow our secret desires, and do a lot for them. There are more difficult and also easier, more comfortable ways to have an interesting sexual life, everybody can find the best matching activity.

Having a stable partner is the best way to fulfill our everyday sexual desires. And if we need more or something else? We can change our partner. Sounds to be done easily, but all we know that changing our partner regularly is neither easy nor assures the desired result, except a few lucky cases. So if we live in a family or have a long a long term relationship, a really stable partner, having secret lover is a hardly working solution. The lover can accept our family, but it won't happen vice versa. Changing their partner regularly can be a perfect and interesting way of getting new sexual experiences for those, who don't plan long term relationship. Others have to find better matching ways, and fortunately there are lot of them.

Having sexual adventures without relationship can mean buying sexual services, if available where we live. Except the moral questions what an emotionless night means, and that these services usually are rather expensive, this is a working solution for many people, although usually both the service provider and the user of the services will be deprecated by friends and relatives, if the thing gets publicity. Still this way of buying sexual experiences is less risky than keeping a lover, but is not really accepted in our society, and it is always a sensitive topic to talk about. So most of people will looking for most accepted and most simple way of having new sexual experiences, even if these ways lack of personal contact.

So we arrived to the virtual possibilities of experiencing sexual adventures. The best known aids of these activities are the adult magazines and erotic videos. These are legal and available on most places, and there is a huge selection. We can buy or borrow them, they are relatively cheap, and even if our partner finds our favorite magazine, it usually will not cause a breakup. The biggest problem with the virtual aids is the missing magic of personal contact, there is no a simple touch of the partner's body possible. Here can help only our imagination. But fortunately there is another way to use the magazines and videos. We strongly recommend to try them with our existing partner, watching an erotic movie together can be a really exciting thing.

Erotic pictures and movies mean a kind of virtual world of sexuality, where we have no personal contact, thing happen mostly in our head. As it is a virtual world, the Internet changed its appearance considerably. Moreover, erotic pictures and videos are the best selling virtual goods on the net. Thousands of web sites offer erotic content, in most of cases cheaper than the well known local special shops. We can easily find the content matching our sexual fantasies, and all that sitting in an armchair at home. Complete privacy assured. Here we can also see, that there is no fantasy existing only in our head.

But the Internet is not only a new version of selling adult pictures and movies. Computers integrate technologies, which connect people, and display lifelike 3D graphics together. This enabled to create online 3D sex game, where the virtual adult content will be integrated with the possibility of meeting real partners. The partners can see each others virtual character, and can play erotic games with them. That is a very near partnership, because we cannot only talk about our own sexual desires, but show them and play them with our network partner. The intimacy of this game is deeper than we can reach during a real meeting at the first time. This way the virtual world provides better solution to experience sexual adventures than we could imagine it without modern computer technology.