In you stroll, looking hot in that new dress or skirt with the Manolo's or Jimmy Choo shoes. You know you look lovely -- after all, it cost you a fortune. You are feeling confident due to the way you are looking and you know others can see it . Does that ring true? Well perhaps, perhaps not. On the other hand, in you stroll; black Armani or Hugo Boss suit, French leather shoes, and handmade shirt. You are feeling lovely, you are feeling successful and you are feeling confident. Yes, my friends, in this fatuous day and age they are what they wear.

People date to know more about two another and find out if they are right for each other. That’s how I view dating in my idealistic world.

This is not to say that they need to spend a King's ransom on the latest designer gear, fashions, style and hand crafted luxury wear from Spain or wherever. But when they dress well they feel lovely, they believe they look lovely and they feel they can do anything they pick. So when dating, it is important to look lovely because if you do, you will feel lovely . Lovely style means a lovely level of confidence.

For some reasons such as sheer joy, beauty or awe of the person you are dating. The dater may be inclined to forget all about the characteristics or traits they or they looks for. The daters may suddenly like the person for the simplest reason of being or being able to make you feel lovely because they looks like a model. You must try to keep away from falling in to a relationship where only the surface matters.

Forget arguing about body shape and expense in your defense against my argument here, it doesn't wash. You can look stylish and classic whatever your shape within reason and whatever your budget. Black will always be classic and well tailored clothes will always look a cut above the rest. I cannot walk down any high street or through any mall these days without being inundated with a sense of style. Everywhere they look there's shops desperate to dress you well. The fact that you don't pick to go in them is not the point. Therefore turning up for your first date in a comfy sweatshirt or sports top may make you feel relaxed but it shows absolute contempt for your date that has spent the best part of the last one hours getting ready for your squalid self. Receive a grip man.

Humor is a great thing to look for in a person. Being with a comic person helps ease the tension of the date a bit. It also makes the date more fun and enjoyable.

But shoes are the biggest giveaway because men think of them as practical necessities that are comfortable than looking at the style involved. It is apparent what is classic and in fashion right now, basically turn your eyes and look through the window of the nearest ubiquitous show store. In your apartment then get back to the shop and sort it out. Lovely shoes mean that you have attention to detail, they has seen and they has noted!