First of all if you're reading this article, it means you love your husband very much and you want to figure out how to make your marriage stronger. Perhaps your marriage has broken down a bit, perhaps things have just gotten stale. Either way, the fact that you're researching wife counseling is a wonderful sign. I don't doubt that if you put into practice some of the strategies discussed here, you'll see a big change in your husband and your marriage.

The first thing I'd like to discuss with you is the false notion held by wives that their husbands only like to have wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am sex. Many women have this idea that men can't be sensual. They think men just want it quick and rough, but that is simply not the case. Men yearn for sensuality. It is a part of being a human being, whether male or female. And men need help from their wife to open up and explore this side of themselves.

It may not be as easy for men to be sensual, but it can be done. When you and your husband are making love, make sure to be gentle with him. Try touching your husband the way you'd want to be touched. And don't forget men have their own errogenous zones! Next time you and your husband are intimate make sure to pay extra special attention to these parts of him:

Scalp and hair.

Many men LOVE when you run your hands through their hair. Some men, like some women, even like to have their hair pulled a little. Not only does it feel good but it puts you in control of him which is a turn on.

Chest.

For many men, this is their most sensitive part. Well, perhaps they have one part that's a bit more sensitive. But the chest is a close second. Make sure to spend quality time here, kissing, rubbing, stroking. And don't forget your husband's nipples. They are often just as sensitive as yours. It's a shame to let them go to waste.

Thighs.

This is another part on a man that many women don't pay attention to, but it can be a very sensitive area on his body. As much as you like being teased, so will your husband.