Your peaceful slumber is interrupted by a masked stranger putting his hand on your mouth as he says, “Just do as I say, and you won’t get hurt.” He pins your hands above your head with one strong arm, and easily rips away your nightgown with his free arm. Fully exposed to him, he takes you quickly and forcefully. Thirty minutes later, you are curled up with your attacker and drifting off to sleep.

Sleeping with your rapist? Hardly. A rape fantasy, or being taken by force, is one of the most popular role playing scenarios for women. Role playing is one of the top fantasies for both men and women, and a little play will go a long way in keeping a relationship fresh and alive.

Men and women have very different preferences when it comes to role playing and these preferences will vary widely from individual to individual. The best way to explore a role playing fantasy is with a partner that you trust and can share your deepest fantasies with. In this situation, you are sure to get the most enjoyment from your scenario.

Typical role playing scenarios include some aspect of an authority figure. For example, a sex fantasy involving an innocent schoolgirl and stern professor, or a doctor and a patient can be very erotic. Adult costumes are available in sex stores, and online to add to the excitement and make the situation more realistic.

If you are looking for a more extreme version of a master-slave fantasy, S & M or sado masochism typically involves whips, leather costumes and chains. When these fetish scenarios are played out in trusting relationships, they can provide a lot of sexual enjoyment for both parties.

What do you do if your sexual fantasy is not the same as your partners? The best thing to do in this situation is keep an open mind. You may not think that you will be turned on by a rape fantasy, but you never know. Often when you see your partner getting excited and turned on, you will in turn get into the role playing and may enjoy it more than you think you will.